Social Media and Mental Health: Understanding the Impact and Managing Use in a Healthy Way

Social media has become a ubiquitous part of modern life, with billions of users worldwide. While social media can be a powerful tool for connecting with others and sharing experiences, it also has the potential to negatively impact our mental health. In this blog post, we'll explore the impact of social media on mental health and offer tips for managing social media use in a healthy way.

1. The impact of social media on mental health

• The link between social media use and depression and anxiety
• The effects of social media on self-esteem and body image
• The impact of social media on sleep and attention span

2. Tips for managing social media use in a healthy way

• Set boundaries for social media use, such as time limits or designated "social media-free" times
• Unfollow or mute accounts that make you feel anxious or negative
• Use social media to connect with positive and supportive communities
• Take breaks from social media when you need to focus on your mental health
• Practice mindfulness and self-reflection when using social media

3. Resources for managing social media use and mental health

• Apps and tools that can help manage social media use
• Professional mental health resources for those struggling with the effects of social media

In conclusion, social media has the potential to impact our mental health in both positive and negative ways. By understanding the potential negative impacts of social media and taking steps to manage our use in a healthy way, we can enjoy the benefits of social media while protecting our mental health. With the right tools and resources, we can use social media to connect with others and enhance our lives without sacrificing our well-being

Attitude we required in today's time towards our children

On the day the CBSE Class X outcomes were reported, Vandana Katoch posted a message on Facebook. It was intended to compliment her child, who had battled with Maths, Science, and Hindi, and to emphasize to him that he had, in reality, progressed admirably. "This is simply to tell my child Mama's too glad, taking into account where you were in January. He propelled himself against himself to be here," she says. Katoch took to online media, additionally to reveal to him that she didn't really accept that imprints made an individual or his life: "I've seen enough of life to realize that." Within 24 hours, the post was shared more than 1,000 times. Presently, after 48 hours, there are around 724 remarks, and more than 2,600 individuals have shared that. She didn't anticipate it. Nor did she envision the benevolent messages that came in her direction, or the remarks on the post, a few guardians supporting her. One message read: "You are a much-needed refresher to most guardians wincing under the gun to make an ideal kid." There were obviously the individuals who disagreed, with another message saying: "That isn't acceptable parenting..." er child after he got his grades in school, felt there wasn't a thing to be glad about when she got him from the bus station. "I needed to remind him about the mountain he'd quite recently ascended, and that he shouldn't come close. Everyone's excursion is extraordinary," says Katoch. On her own excursion, the mum met an individual mother whose child had exited the school and was an effective photographic artist. Discussions with her child made a difference. "Ultimately, he came to me and said, 'How about we simply do this, and get it out of the way,'." And he did. 

Facebook Message was like this --

Super proud of my boy who scored a 60% in Class 10 board exams. Yes it is not a 90, but that doesn't change how I feel. Simply because I have seen him struggle with certain subjects almost to the point of giving up, and then deciding to give his all in the last month-and-a-half to finally make it through! Here's to you, Aamer. And others like you - fishes asked to climb trees. Chart your own course in the big, wide ocean, my love. And keep your innate goodness, curiosity, and wisdom alive. And of course, your wicked sense of humour!

Tragically, guardians whose children don't get the imprints are consistently on the back foot, always failing to stand up. "This is on the grounds that someplace guardians trust it's their very own impression selves and nobody needs to look terrible. It's an inclination that 'I didn't buckle down enough with him.' There's disgrace related with it," she says. While Vasant Valley, the Delhi-based school Aamer, her child, is in, has been strong, various kids aren't so fortunate. The actual framework is slanted to profit youngsters who become familiar with a specific way. Sheets need to work with a wide base of guardians, to achieve a fundamental change, feels Katoch. Effectively in Class XI, Aamer presently has subjects that he appreciates: Sociology, Psychology, History, and Political Science, other than English.

We need to understand child psychology so that we can come up with a better solution and understanding of our children.

Lets talk about Stress - Physical stress, Psychological stress

The very first step in knowing stress is understanding just what it is.

Physical stress, for example psychological stress, may also be brought on by lots of distinct facets. If you are coping with chronic pain, for example, anxiety may cause pain medicine. It can even make you miss a few days of effort. Chronic pain may also result in stress that may cause more health problems. If you are experiencing issues with your relationship, anxiety can lead to frustration and anger, that can cause you to lash out at others.

It could make it hard to breathe or swallow properly. It can make a sense of discomfort or fatigue in joints, such as your back and stomach. These symptoms may last from a couple of minutes to many hours, but will pass after a time.

While both physical and psychological stress are essential to managing your own life, it can be hard to differentiate the two. When dealing with one or another, it's crucial to comprehend the indicators of each. As you learn how to comprehend the differences between the 2 kinds, you'll be more able to control the stressors in your lifetime.

Emotional anxiety can often be more difficult to control. Individuals that are emotionally stressed frequently respond in various ways to various scenarios. Some folks will come to be extremely irritable. Others are going to end up exceptionally depressed. Others might even become physically sick.

To start with, anxiety can happen to everybody when they're facing a stressful position. For example, it may happen when you're driving or in a poor mood. It may also happen when you're nervous about talking in public.

Knowing the distinction between physical and psychological pressure is a significant first step in knowing what causes them. Learning how to handle and deal with stress can allow you to handle any kind of situation, while it is a physical or psychological challenge. Even if it's something which isn't associated with anxiety, learning the gap between both will permit you to better manage your energy and time. You will be better able to concentrate on the things which are important for you.

Emotional anxiety, on the other hand, causes lots of the exact symptoms as physical strain, and a number of them are equally as poor. Stress, depression, and anxiety are a few of the symptoms you will encounter when dealing with psychological stress. Emotional stress may also enable you to get stomach upset or nausea. Sometimes, you might experience insomnia.

By understanding the gap between both of these sorts of anxiety, it is possible to see that it is a fantastic thing to have at least some comprehension. About the status and consequences of both kinds of anxiety. As you become aware of your body's responses, you will be better able to ascertain what causes your anxiety so you can discover how to reduce or remove them. Later on.

Sometimes, stress isn't something which you feel but may be gotten emotionally.

Physical stress may be due to a range of things. A few of them include issues with relationships or work, or perhaps just having a bad day on the job. Whenever you're confronted with a physical obstacle, your own body will do anything it is to fight back. That is the reason it's essential to not forget to breathe frequently during a stressful position.

Physical stress causes lots of the exact symptoms as psychological stress, but there are a number of differences which you might notice. Emotional stress may also cause you to feel depressed and nervous.

Premature Ejaculation

If you're attempting to have a wholesome relationship, and you also ought to ensure it remains healthy, then you are going to want to know about what is premature ejaculation. There are various causes of this issue, but it typically stems from both the physical and psychological frame of mind.

When a man has a premature ejaculatory difficulty, it's likely to wind up getting the disorder called PE. This is a really significant issue that may result in death if left untreated. PE is caused by a lack of psychological and physical endurance.

Premature ejaculation may cause difficulties in relationships. It follows that lots of the girls in a relationship might have an issue with their spouse if they're not able to continue long enough to get their partner to climax. Girls might also be not able to please their men as they're unable to survive long enough. Many people today feel that guys are far more in control of this problem than girls, so that they feel as though they can control if it will occur.

Premature ejaculation may also be a indication that a man has been depressed. Additionally, it may indicate a man isn't happy in his connection. Men with PE are usually not in a fantastic mood, and this may bring about depression from the individual changed. Some men might attempt to steer clear of sexual activity to conceal their problem, which just makes matters worse.

If you're a guy who suffer from premature ejaculating, and you're concerned that your relationship may be over, then you need to start looking into seeking help yourself. There are a number of remedies that may help you to get back your confidence. Additionally, there are many resources on the internet which you may utilize.

If you eat something that's going to produce your bladder become bigger, this will make a more difficult time when you try to urinate. In addition, this can result in difficulties with your PC muscle. This is only one of the critical reasons why guys ejaculate fast.

Another thing to consider is what's causing your early ejaculation at the first location. This can help to get rid of the issue permanently.

If you're thinking about finding the proper assistance for your self, it might be in your very best interest to think about natural procedures of therapy rather than having to go through expensive operation. Aromatherapy, massage, meditation and other methods can help relax you and provide your body a number of its desired relief.

Premature ejaculating does not signify that the guy doesn't care for his spouse or his spouse doesn't love him. It only suggests that the guy isn't capable of satisfying his spouse on a constant basis.

A research by 500 men revealed that the average quantity of time required to get a man to semen was 5.5 minutes later beginning sex.

When a man is experiencing premature ejaculating, he's usually unable to relax during intercourse. This induces him to survive longer, and leads to him not enjoying the experience as far as he'd love to.

Many guys find help for premature ejaculation only because they feel like they can't control it. This is an issue which may be overcome if the two spouses work together to get the ideal therapy.

That is the reason some people today have a tendency to survive longer during intercourse than others. 1 means to do so is to lie down on your tummy and exercise yoga or workout prior to sex.

                                                    DISCOVER THE REALITY

Two Nations

Two countries, same yet different

One run by faith of the people 

The other run by the ideals

One under humongous debts

The other, a prodigy in making

One jealous in its short sightedness

The other, looking over the horizons

One pitied for its pathetic conditions

The other capable of rising to the top

One deals with the devil

The other, messiah of peace

One gangs up with hyenas

The other hunts with the pack

One using charity to sow seeds of destruction

The other tired of removing the weeds

One that hates the developed 

One that challenges the best

Two countries with the power to completely raze each other

Two countries with a troubled childhood

Who knows when will the race end

Or is the race a ruse for keeping both of them far behind

Last Days

Only last two days of the year are left,
In just glimpse of time, they will be theft.
We are looking at the gone days,
Some were sad and some were slay.
We made many new friends,
Well this is how is today's trend.
Many of our dear ones are left behind,
But time has gone and it can't rewind.
Many had hurt us and to many we had done,
Forgive them and ask the same and leave none.
You can't go back and change the beginning,
But you can start where you are and change the ending.
Don't carry the pain in your heart in the new year,
Just leave the pain and go ahead, God will help you, I swear.

Resonance

A moment in which two things vibrate or behave in similar fashion under similar circumstances. Atleast this is what the books say.

But if we leave the scientific part for the scientists, then resonance can only be thought of as seeing someone with characteristics similar to us. They perform in a particular way, in a particular situation with a particular precision, almost as if they were  copying our own style. We find it  fulfilling  and energetic to find someone with a similar experience and view of life. This fact, alone increases the chances of friendship with the other  person.

It's a common knowledge that we like people who try to listen and understand our needs and life. But when we see the other person going through the same thing, it stirs a little bit of our emotional part and if possible, we try to help the other person. Irrespective of the outcome, our action solidates a bond of friendship that has the absolute level of understanding. I believe these coincidental friendships have a stronger chance of bearing the brunt of the latest friendship protocols, where friendships are for miniscule things and matters, and if nothing else, satisfaction of needs.

People who make bonds after watching the other guy go through the same thing underestimate  the level of similarities in between them and evaluate the other person very quickly . They end up being in a relation of sharing and caring mutually, but when other person's life starts to unravel in front of them & the amount of baddies turns out to be more than the amount of goodies , they just shirk their responsibilities and walk away.

The environment becomes of full of dejection as the people once involved feel that they could have been good friends and put the blame on the other person for pretending and lying to be someone they are not. And then they walk away to repeat the whole cycle all over again and in the process, accumulating stress and dejection.

What was their fault to face such problems?

My answer: Patience and Lack of proper understanding

Had they been just cordial towards each other and patient towards each other's flaws while understanding their good , the friendship would have survived. But who has the time to waste time and energy to know someone who they (sarcasm missile launched) will eventually leave their life in times of turmoil and need. Having a proper and long lasting friendship requires time to check the level of personality resonance between people. It is the reason, we are able to make strong satisfying relationships that last a long time.

But in today's time when the present satisfaction is given a priority over long term satisfaction, then the bonds formed between people are also of the same nature , i. e they hold a value for a short period of time only...

It is an urgent requirement of the present generation, but no one actually is attentive enough, in the same to acknowledge their own need.

I hope they learn their lesson before their time runs out...

Thinking About Purpose

I laid down on my bed, all alone, missing someone, and thinking about the sole purpose of life. How life gets its purpose and how people get a reason to live.

Many questions keep on having a race with each other in my mind. What I do and what I really want to do? Why do I work? Because I have to earn money or because I love my work? Why do I need to earn money? Because I want to live a happy life or just because I have to look good in my society? Or because I have mortgage to pay or feed the children or to buy clothes and food? But whats so good about that. If I do not have any mortgage to pay or what if my children leave the home when I grow old? Why I am working then? When I am spending my days and nights doing a work that I even did not like to do? Then what is the purpose of my life?

When I stood up, I realized that I have no purpose in my life. I have had no goal to work for that will keep me going. I have no one with me to help with through my days and nights. No one to talk to or tell my feelings to. I have nothing that I can point to and say, "it is worth doing..."

I am just looking for places to visit for which I don't have enough money, I don't know why? I am daily going to work, I don't know why? I just count the 5 days of the week for the weekend to come, I don't know why? I think for the weekends but I have no one to spend it worth, I don't know why?

Why all these happens to ,e? Because I don't have any purpose in my life. Then why am I here? What I am doing here? I don't know what I am doing and why am I doing it at all.

So, how do you give your life a purpose? Do you have some secrets? Or are you all feeling like this but just do not want to accept it?

Rape Accussed- Burn Candles or Burn Nation..Decide Now

When a rape accussed is not arrested, we burn candles and march.

When a rape accussed is arrested, we burn the nation.

#IncredibleIndia

India being a land of many goddesses, where women are considered as “Maa Kaali” and are worshipped….oohh don’t go with the words, it’s a an irony. Not a single word written above is true. It is only meant to be read by the rest of the world to show our fake fame and culture.

We live at the scariest place where girl is just treated as an object of fun that can be used and thrown away. It is a place where a 1-year old girl is raped by a 40-years old devil. It is a country where people blindly trust a person and make him as their god without even knowing the facts.

We all remember the Nirbhaya case, in which the girl was gang raped and was thrown naked on the road almost dead. The doctors were not able to save her and she got a deadly end. To get justice for her, lakhs of people candle marched on the roads for the girl who was not their sister or daughter or wife, still the people of India left their houses and protested against the government to get the culprits hanged. That incident showed the unity and togetherness of the citizens of the country.

But that is one face of the coin. The other face of the coin is the scariest . Where the citizens are supporting each other against a rapist, in the same country people are protesting against the law to save a rapist. Ram Rahim who is a Saint according to many has been convicted for rape case. His superstitious devotees had made the whole nation on fire. Innocent people are being killed, public property are being destroyed. Not only men, even women are also protecting Ram Rahim. How can they even do that, don’t they feel the pain of the lady who was raped by the devil or they have just blind folded themselves and are just following the evil path showed to them by the devil Ram Rahim.

 He is being given VIP treatment even after being accussed for rape. What a great country we live in, where no one even spoke a word on the death of 60 children due to lack of facilities in the hospital, and here lakhs of people are burning the nation to save a rapist. 

The lady had filed the case against Ram Rahim in the year 2002, but no action was taken at that time. Just think of that lady, she had been fighting for justice for 15 years and finally when the time came, the stupid and superstitious citizens of the country are not allowing the law to do its work.

Police had valid proofs against Ram Rahim, still people are not ready to accept that he is a rapist. This is not the first time that the citizens of India had raised their voice for a wrong cause. When Asaram was convicted fir rape charges, his devotees did the same, burnt the whole nation on fire.

How dumb and inhuman are the people. They are killing innocent people for a rapist. How bullshit is all this. When  you yourself are supporting a rapist then why did all asked justice for Nirbhaya, just because she was not raped by Ram Rahim. How can we ask boys and men to respect women when the women of the country don’t know how to respect themselves. What a shameful act it is that the women are supporting a rapist.

Its high time that the people of our country should open their eyes and see the truth, wash their eyes so that the dirt of fake babas and their superstitious rituals will wash away with water.

Being Casual

You would never realize how suddenly being casual will make you involved in so many literal things that they will become an important part of your life. Being casual simply doesn't mean that you don't realize the importance of other things, but it seems you are not attached enough that if won't affect you if you let them go. But I think the one who looks casual is the one who is more emotional.
You take your thoughts to be casual, you ignore your feelings your emotions, you try to look cool in front of other, but deep inside you know that its not you. You are in a race with yourself to find the real you. You try to be apart from others, being attached but not emotionally, a state of being "detached". You tempt to do this and also succeed for a while, but then everything just comes back. You try to fall apart from it, but it keeps on chasing you. The more you run away from it, the more it comes near to you. You try to resist it by your casual nature, but it keeps on coming to you. It tries to control you completely until it consumes you. Your casual nature then rests in a side and let to go the way it is taking you. You just stay awake to see the path you are going to. You still try to resist somewhat, because there is a feeling of insecurity and self-doubt inside you that should you resist or shouldn't you?

You travel along with it and realize that it had somewhat made you channelized, focus, and you finally accept the acquiescence. It will not leave you, which means its meant to stay.

Your casual attitude will be there somewhere dumped in one corner of your heart and now you will be a changed person. Once an idea will find home in your mind, it will not leave it until it will consume it completely.

Lipstick Under My Burkha

So is the coverage of body necessary only for girls. I mean seriously just think of those girls who buy costly beauty products and they have to hide it under burkha....well well well..it was just a joke.

Being a girl, I can understand it easily that how difficult it is being restricted for all the things that boys are never told to stop. Its not just with the young girls, it for all girls, ladies and aunties. Like if a lady is widow, then she is not allowed to use any beauty products or even make herself neat and tidy and if she wishes to do so, then she is called with cheap names like slut etc. But why, when someone's wife dies, does the male is told not to get his hairs trimmed or not to do shave, then why all the restrictions with girls.

The only thing that interests people is the type of clothes girls wear. Oh my god, she is wearing shorts, she is a slut..oohh she is wearing jeans, she is not of good character. Is the type of clothes a girl wear are enough to decide her character. And most important, who are others to give their views on a girl’s character, Why can’t people just do their own work, why they always want to interfere in other’s life.

Talking about sex, not the gender, the intimacy that is sex. If your wife is not ready to get intimate with you, then you have no right to force her. It is nothing less than rape if you force yourself on her.

Getting married doesn't mean that you have got a slut with whom you can have rape anytime and that is too "legal rape."

You should love her and not molest her. Touch her with love and not with the aim to just put your dick inside her pussy.

And what about the choice of having children. Is that only concerned with male and not with female. It should be mutual whether they want to have child or not and not just have forcibly sex and make her pregnant each month. Still in our society, if a wife talks to her husband about "condom", she is treated as shameless that how could even she think about something like "condom". How ridiculous is this, you want to have sex with her and do not even want to use protection in it. Its 21st century and still we feel shame talking about condom and sex, but why not to talk. Its a natural process so why to hide it. Atleast you should be free enough to discuss these things with your partner. And if your partner is not enough mature to talk about these things, them its better to leave him as he has no right to rape you every night and to put you in a situation that can ever threaten your life.

It I not just only about the partner, even in our families and everyone else in the society need to understand this that a girl is not meant to be commented upon or to see her just a toy to play with or as a weak person who will do whatever she would be asked to do whether she agrees for it or not.

For God’s sake, please change your views towards girls. Remember, a girl is the only source source who brings a new life to this earth and feed him. Don’t shatter her to the point that she would have to become “KAALI” to kill all the culprits.

Why We Need A Day Like 14th June

It has been centuries now, we all are very much aware about the problem of child begging in our society and our country. Its not like that someone has to tell us about this, because now it has become a part of our daily lives in such a way that we daily come across many child beggars, we see them, for a minute or two think about their poor condition and then move to our path and not for a minute the thought comes to our mind to do something for the betterment of these child beggars.

The condition of child beggars is worst than what you can imagine in our worst imagination. Child beggars are guided to beg the way they do, and by giving them coins we are not helping them but are destroying their present and future. According to the Indian National Human Rights Commission, upto 40,000 children are abducted every year in India, out of which approximately 1100 remain untraced. But do you really think that this report is true? Not at all, these are just numbers, the condition of these children can't be mounted into numbers.

Street children are regularly inflicted with wounds so that they with get more money out of sympathy. The kind-hearted men and women often don't know that the money they give isn't used to buy food, medicine, or access to education, but alcohol and drugs, and also given to their traffickers.

They are, according to accounts of rescued children, given daily targets for their begging trips. Drugs are also used to keep children sedated - it is common to see women pretending to be mothers, with a 'sleeping' child - the child is usually drugged into submission. It is also not rare to hear of cases where babies 'rent' babies from labour class mothers, to make them much more pitiable to passerby.

Shockingly, Mumbai Police found that many parents in Mumbai are able to live comfortable lives simply by pushing their children into begging. They use the facilities offered by the government for the Right to Education Act while forcing their children to not attend classes. Even when sent to shelters by the Child Welfare Commission (CWC), parents would come to the shelters to retrieve their children, and push them back into begging.

Duayen Foundation has taken an initiative to make India begging free. The have marked a day 14th June as a target to make India child-begging free.

What would be done on 14th June:

We would go to the nearby traffic signals having the posters of child-begging free India in our hands and will do silent protest, so that each vehicle crossing that traffic signal will atleast look once on the poster and will think and may be will pass the message to other's also.

Can we awake the people with our shout this time ?????? come stand as "WE" ?? are you gonna make a difference to this evil society ??? a like - WE WILL and a comment - WE LL ALSO AWARE MORE AND MORE PEOPLE TO SAVE THE GIRL CHILD ! NAARI SHAKTI KO NAMAN ! JAI HIND.

Our will power and unity can transform child beggars into Superheroes of this Earth.

I think now its high time to write posts and notes, its the time now to stand up for these children and be their voice.

Maa

A mother is a one for whom there is no adjective in the world that can express our gratitude or love towards her. A woman who works 24*7 without any holiday or without any salary, dedicates herself completely to her family and children and does not expects anything in return. Whenever we are in any trouble or we need money or we need to search our clothes or we are sick, only one words comes to our mind and mouth and that is "maa", because we know that there is no one in this world who loves us the way our mother does.

When a child is born, the reason of him or her being able to open his or her eyes in this world is a mother. She holds the little fingers of her child and makes him to learn how to keep his first step on earth. She is always there by her child's side whatever may be the situation.

I don't find any word that would express my affection and love for you mamma, it can only be felt and I will always make you feel that in every possible way. My thankfulness to you is beyond words, so I would just say, "you are the reason of my happiness. No one can be like you." "And this is true for all the mothers.

OneGoOneImpact

#We live in times that test our sanity;
#We love in times that drains our humanity;
#We work for the process of making money;
#For many think that's the only thing that makes their day sunny;

#But there are those not so fortunate;
#The one's that get stuck in the game of fate;
#These are the people treated as dirt & crap;
#And to top it, some unworthy give them ludicrous ways to escape this trap;

#They are made to beg for a 1-square meal;
#No one even cares or wonders how they feel;
#Inspite of all, they are called the 'society's disgrace' ;
#I can't even start imagining how many difficulties they actually face;

#It is up to us to free our kin;
#Not doing so, just adds up in our list of sin;
#We need to protect them from the predators;
#For these are the people that can be called 'humanity's traitors' ;

#Let's unite against this just cause;
#Let's give these people's suffering an indefinite pause;
#Let's give our movement the shield's shape;
#If we muster enough support, we will be worthy of donning on the superman's cape;

Let's make a #BeggingFreeDelhi #OneGoOneImpact

Follow : Duayen Foundation

Child Begging- A Bane

The Constitution of India had made many laws all for the welfare of its citizens. The main focus has been put on children and women. If all the laws would have been implemented in the correct way, then India would have been a heaven on earth.

But is that true? Are all the laws that have been made, have been implemented?

Child begging is the most crucial threat, that we are just knowing and think about those children who are living with this truth that they are "child beggars". We can't even imagine that pain and difficulties these children face in their childhood. Childhood which is the most beautiful and memorable phase of one's life, the child beggars are scratched far away from this happiness.

The main causes of child begging are poverty which leads the adults to force children for begging, orphaned and abandoned children are kidnapped and forced to beg, not having the awareness of the fundamental rights of children, organized gangs/mafias kidnap and sell children and their body parts and the saddest part is that the government had failed to implement the policies for the welfare of these children.

Their hands are meant to make sandcastles and not to beg on streets.

By official statistics 60,000 children disappear every year and upto an estimation, there are 3,00,000 child beggars in India. In spite of a number of policies, the government has failed due to lack of political will.

Now its our turn to stand together for these children as they deserve to spend their childhood by learning and not earning. #OneGoOneImpact is an initiative of #DuayeinFoundation, that only aims to give these children their lives back and wants to fill happiness on their faces. Support Duayein Foundation in making Delhi Begging Free, just think for once, how would you have felt if the child begging on the street would have been yours. Then might be you will be able to understand their pain.

Come join and motivate others to stand together to make Delhi Begging Free #OneGoOneImpact.

Show a child love and care, child begging is not at all fair.

Dont Support Begging

The dictionary meaning of Beg means to ask something earnestly or honestly but some people make this thing as a business and children are the sources for them to earn whether they are parents or mafia people. Children have the right to play in their childhood, nobody can take that away from them, but when the situation arises to earn for the survival, they forget to play , forget to go to school and even forget their rights to ask the government nor they have the one who can ask the government about these children rights.

There are so many issues arises like:

Because of us: When we give money (or biscuits), we initiate a cycle of poverty and give children a motive to stay out of school and earn easily.

Child Trafficking/Human Trafficking: According to reports, In India roughly 60k children disappear every year, and may be they are kidnapped by some dealers or mafia people to make them earn like this and there is no one who can save them because even the police gets good incentive while let them begging.

Political Structure: A law was formed on 7 July 2008 to eradicate child beggary from delhi but they are failed to do that. You check this article.

http://indianexpress.com/article/cities/delhi/plea-in-hc-to-eradicate-begging-by-children/

Emotionally or Violence: Around 80% children are forced by their parents to do begging because they think its easy to earn rather than doing something else.

www.hindustantimes.com/delhi/delhi-s-underbelly-80-kids-forced-into-begging-by-parents/story-qsZjTOoS4X48JZoGb58TOI_amp.html

And Lastly Unemployment: Government is not able to provide them jobs, they initiate some programs like skill India etc but again this also become a part of corruption , somehow it is successful but again it doesn’t able to generate more jobs.

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Begum Jaan Trailer

Just saw the mesmerising trailer of Begum Jaan. The trailer depicts that the movie revolves around the time when British ruler Mount Baeton was the Governor General of India. Based on the concept of prostitution, its showing the courage of the prostitutes and how they fought couragely with the powerful rulers since they were forcing them to vacant their home because it was between India-Pakistan border. For the prostitutes living there, it was much more than the fight between India and Pakistan as it was their house and for the officials it was just a "kotha" of prostitutes. From the trailer only, Vidya Balan has proved that she is a superb actress.

Eagerly waiting for the movie to be released soon.

Sex Education- Replace An Empty Mind With An Open One

Why are we so scared of talking about sex? What kind of logics the parents give to their children to avoid talking about this topic because they think that if id dirt and embarassing to talk about "sex" and its issues with their children.

There are many misconceptions surrounding sex education in India.

Many parents say that "Sex education is not for my child… it makes them to be sanctioned towards having sex at the early stages of their life."

Children are naturally curious about sex. Stopping them or refusing to answer their questions make them to find other ways to fulfill their curiosity. They ask their friends, or watch movies and videos or search on the internet regarding it. It leads to half-baked knowledge that is very dangerous for them. It raises many adulthood doubts in their mind. Some of the questions are:

If a boy and a girl sleep on the same bed, will it cause pregnancy?

Does swallowing during oral sex causes pregnancy?
If a boy and a girl kiss each other, does they loose their virginity?

Does watching porn videos can make me pregnant?

and many more questions like this. the result is they try to find out answers to these questions through the untrusted ways and a misguided that can even ruin their life.

Many of us have given the suggestion that, "If we ban sex education, our children will never find out about it, and this will solve all our problems."

Sex education is not aimed to teach children how to have sex at the early stage of their life. It is concerned with making them aware of the physiological, social and biological aspects to lead healthy and safe sex, life in their future. It teaches that gender identity, physical changes, awareness about child abuse, birth control measures, and prevention of AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases.

We the people of India very strongly believe that "Sex education is only needed in the West, where they have all these silly problems like teen pregnancy and child abuse. We in India, with all our moral values, culture, and traditions don’t need it."

Woww, what the moral values, tradition and culture has given us. India is the second most populated country in the world, has the highest rate of teen pregnancy and HIV/AIDS infection, and the most shocking part is we have the highest rate of sexual abuse among children and adults. What moral values, awesome. All these are caused due to stopping the youth to know about their bodies, their urges which forces them to find other ways to know it. Our culture does not prevent rapes or our tradition does not educate about the health issues to the youth and the consequences of early pregnancy.

Parents have the best excuse, "Sex is an adult topic. Everyone get to know about it after their marriage. Teaching sex education can corrupt the life of their children."
Shockingly, 53% of the teens of India that too between the age of 5 to 12 are subjected to sexual abuse. Our culture and moral teaches us to be silent on these topics and not to speak a single word just let it happen what is happening because it is shameful if you will talk about sexual abuse with your elders. The most sad part is many of the children don't even know that they are being sexually abused and their life is ruined everyday.

Most of us have only this to say, "Teaching children about sex will only cause them to have more sex. Sex education is the reason behind teen pregnancy."
In India, there are 62 teenage pregnancy out of every 1000 pregnant women, which is double that of US, 3 times that of UK and to the mercy of our moral values, culture and traditions, the highest in the world. Why? Because 18% of the girls are married before the age of 15 and 47% of the girls are married before the age of 18. Our elders should accept the truth that teenage pregnancy is not a "Western Import", we only are responsible for it, the orthodox thinking of our society, the out-dated and deadly practices, the complete lack of awareness of the bodily functions, sexual choices, birth control and contraceptive measures.

Its high time now to remove the dirt from our eyes and see the truth. If the parents will refuse to their children to talk about sex and the related issues, they won't stop and will find other ways to complete their curiosity. Half-baked, incorrect knowledge about sex can be dangerous. Would you like your children to be unaware, instead of enabling them to make the right choices and live safer, happier and healthier lives?

HAPPINESS IS A JOURNEY NOT A DESTINATION

What's happiness means? How do you feel when you get to eat your favorite food item, or when you are going out with your friends to watch a movie of your favorite actor, or when you meet your best friend after a long time, or when you achieve something for which you were waiting from a long time. All these moments bring a beautiful smile at your face and that smile is not the fake one, it totally real and comes directly from your heart. Its like you were walking all alone in your thoughts might be day dreaming also, waiting for some miracle to happen and suddenly everyone and everything around you starts to work in the way that you have assumed it to be that it brings a huge smile to your face. That moment and that happiness can't be expressed in words, it can only be felt.

Some people have all the reasons to be happy but still their inner boundations doesn't allow them to enjoy that happiness. There are also who have no reason to smile but their strong will of being happy makes them to find millions of reasons to smile. When the sun sets, its not the end, but the beginning of a new story and a new morning. Its a psychological fact famously known as the "Law of Attraction" that if you will think positive and speak positive then it goes into the surroundings and bounces back to you and same applies with negative thoughts. So it depends on the person how he or she proceeds with his or her thought process because ultimately his vibes whether positive or negative bounces back to him.

If you have warmth in your igloo, oil in your diya and peace in your heart then you are the richest person, but if you don't have it and are chasing to have it then no one can stop you from getting it. Its not like that obstacles doesn't comes in path or everything seems to be very easy, but its how you take those obstacles, as the restrictions or the frictional force that is opposing you to achieve something or you are taking as a challenge and are welcoming it to have a tough and successful fight with it.We should stay calm and think what we are doing in the past time that made us happy and what can we do in our present that will make us happy and positive towards life.

Be happy not because everything is good but because you can see good in everything.

Think About your Gf

Do you have a girlfriend -real or imaginary. If yes, then you will be at very ease in relating yourself with this video. Have you ever stopped for a while and thought why is she in your life? Is she the most beautiful girl whom you have ever met? Or you are with her just to show others that you have a girlfriend? Are you attracted by her external beauty or are in love with her internal beauty? Is she the one who understands you every time and holds on you in your good and bad situations?

Ask yourself these questions because no one better than you can give you answers for these questions. Try to find that are you doing everything for her that she deserves or doing more that she doesn't deserve. I am sure you would have got all your answers after watching this video.

 

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