Why do we do what we do?

Why do we do what we do?

We don't know what tomorrow holds, but we prepare to cross caravans on the bridge of the future, supported by the pillars of hope and belief.

We plan crazy things as if we are the almighty creator and have the 'admin' rights, turning situations about to occur, in our little minds into swamps sucking us of attention and energy.

We race each other and play nice or cruel, based on our position and speed.

We flaunt power, an entity that changes sides like the direction of wind, as its rightful owners, unknown to the fact that others do the same.

We fill our homes with things that look good, things make our lives good and things that enhance us in any way. Comfort comes at a cost we run to pay, for at the end, comfort is the aim, but at the end, we get everything but the comfort we aimed for.

We start sailing our boats at an early age, collecting memories and experiences, using them to power the engine and make better maps for the guidance system for future use. Yet we sometimes head straight for the

storm that we should be avoiding. Greed, I guess?

We chain ourselves to a group and nourish them with our energy, time, and  a fragment of our soul, in hopes that one day we will share a connection worth a lifetime. 

Some, you reap, some, reap you.

We make our colourful world into bi-pathed: Win or Lose. Winning puts increases your level, while losing decreases it. We ourselves make our life a game 

and then blame the world for forcing it on us.

We care more about possession of material than possession of soul. I guess, the former is an easy task: you just have to be a hoarder, hoarding for life and 

without much of a reason other than 

being proud of your collection?

Possession of Soul is, well the toughest path out there. 

It's the exact opposite of the other state:

 you give what you don't need with a smile to fulfill the needs of others 

and thus sparking a fire of happiness and gratefulness. 

The worth-a-lifetime-connection you were trying to make, 

well, you get to feel a demo version 

every time you do others good.

In the past people used to rise with the sun, for they had a sun in their soul. They had a purpose and after a daily grind to achieve that purpose, the sun set, getting ready for another sunrise. 

These days, people are empty shells, filled with whatever they can find in their surroundings.

 Afterall, something is better than nothing.

 Purpose, you say, where is it? 

How can purpose, a sprout, plant itself in, when there is only indecomposable trash taking up all the space. 

And the funny thing is, 

They think they are cool living like this.

Hard and easy have the opposite consequences.

 Do the hard and things become easy, but the world thinks you have no brains.

 Do the easy, and life becomes hard, and the world applauds you for your wily actions. 

If only this was ever taught in schools...

I can understand drunk people now. 

Life is bittersweet, so why not drink something similar. 

But like life, the drink overtakes you in ways you can't imagine and makes you it's plaything. 

You chose the drink to escape life, yet ended up with the same result: 

Someone's pawn.

All I say is, if you wanna be a pawn (in someone's chess) so damn-much,

 Why not choose something that makes someone's life better 

in whichever perspective or time frame you are comfortable,

 short or long.

I wonder, when we will venture into space, for it's the future that we all seek and only one that leaves us breathing. Can't wait for us, people from one planet to go into space, 

united in venture but divided by aims.

 Soon, new ideologies will take place and we will start bickering over irrelevant things.

 And once again, 

we will be fighting for things, with the only difference being, 

we will have technology to eradicate the other side 

without much of a disadvantage to the destroying side.

 And you know what will be even better, 

an alien race introducing itself to us. 

I just hope, they will be just like us, 

not too good or not too bad, 

Else we will be intimidated by their advantage and that will be the start of something ugly....

In The Wake Of Morning Hues

I search for a world full of endearment, gratification and veneration.

Where, the people are not blinded by the color

And divinity but are mesmerized by the purity residing into the fathom of one’s heart.

In the wake of morning hues

I yearn for a place so placid which,

Satiate the hunger of the peace craving soul.

Where, every ailing thought and churlish thing

is flavored with the sweetness of the kind hearts.

In the wake of morning hues

I search for a world where,

Nobility and charity are not misused for one’s fame

And the cries and pain of the innocents doesn’t fall on deaf ears.

In the wake of morning hues

I dream of a world where, the only religion in practice is “humanity”

And the prayer of this third religion is nothing but the hymn of the beating hearts.

In the wake of morning hues

I search for the world where,

People don’t kill their own brethren to prove their superiority and dominance,

Turning beautiful cities to no man’s land.

In the wake of morning hues

I yearn for a world free from wars and bloodshed.

A place which is not traumatized by the post war effects.

In the wake of morning hues

I yearn for a world, which is equivalent to Elysium.

A world well knitted with hearts well beating.

In the wake of morning hues

I wish that my dream of this world never dies,

And my heart never loose the sight of this dream.

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Different types of Bra for Women...

"A friend is like a good bra: hard to find, comfortable, supportive, always lifts you up, makes you look better, never lets you down or leaves you hanging, and always close to your heart."

1. T-Shirt Bra

2. Halter Neck Net Bra

3. Maternity Bra

4. Stick-on Bra

5. Front-open Bra

6. Push-up Bra

7. Sports Bra

8. Padded Bra

9. Strapless Bra

10. Bandeau Bra

11. Longline Bra

12. Halter Bra

13. Silicone Bra

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Lets talk about Stress - Physical stress, Psychological stress

The very first step in knowing stress is understanding just what it is.

Physical stress, for example psychological stress, may also be brought on by lots of distinct facets. If you are coping with chronic pain, for example, anxiety may cause pain medicine. It can even make you miss a few days of effort. Chronic pain may also result in stress that may cause more health problems. If you are experiencing issues with your relationship, anxiety can lead to frustration and anger, that can cause you to lash out at others.

It could make it hard to breathe or swallow properly. It can make a sense of discomfort or fatigue in joints, such as your back and stomach. These symptoms may last from a couple of minutes to many hours, but will pass after a time.

While both physical and psychological stress are essential to managing your own life, it can be hard to differentiate the two. When dealing with one or another, it's crucial to comprehend the indicators of each. As you learn how to comprehend the differences between the 2 kinds, you'll be more able to control the stressors in your lifetime.

Emotional anxiety can often be more difficult to control. Individuals that are emotionally stressed frequently respond in various ways to various scenarios. Some folks will come to be extremely irritable. Others are going to end up exceptionally depressed. Others might even become physically sick.

To start with, anxiety can happen to everybody when they're facing a stressful position. For example, it may happen when you're driving or in a poor mood. It may also happen when you're nervous about talking in public.

Knowing the distinction between physical and psychological pressure is a significant first step in knowing what causes them. Learning how to handle and deal with stress can allow you to handle any kind of situation, while it is a physical or psychological challenge. Even if it's something which isn't associated with anxiety, learning the gap between both will permit you to better manage your energy and time. You will be better able to concentrate on the things which are important for you.

Emotional anxiety, on the other hand, causes lots of the exact symptoms as physical strain, and a number of them are equally as poor. Stress, depression, and anxiety are a few of the symptoms you will encounter when dealing with psychological stress. Emotional stress may also enable you to get stomach upset or nausea. Sometimes, you might experience insomnia.

By understanding the gap between both of these sorts of anxiety, it is possible to see that it is a fantastic thing to have at least some comprehension. About the status and consequences of both kinds of anxiety. As you become aware of your body's responses, you will be better able to ascertain what causes your anxiety so you can discover how to reduce or remove them. Later on.

Sometimes, stress isn't something which you feel but may be gotten emotionally.

Physical stress may be due to a range of things. A few of them include issues with relationships or work, or perhaps just having a bad day on the job. Whenever you're confronted with a physical obstacle, your own body will do anything it is to fight back. That is the reason it's essential to not forget to breathe frequently during a stressful position.

Physical stress causes lots of the exact symptoms as psychological stress, but there are a number of differences which you might notice. Emotional stress may also cause you to feel depressed and nervous.

Evidences He Needs To Be With You

Men are distinct and their behavior can be perplexing and girls can be confused with their own behavior. He'll make claims to provide you presents if you allow him gives you dates which are free, and has got the capability to change things around so you are going to feel more unique. If you can learn what really is like, you will understand what the indications are that a person would like to be with you.

If a guy does these things always, he's revealing his love for you. If he says"I love you" more often and in greater depth than simply saying it in a meeting or through the vacations, he's showing you that he or she cares. He wishes to be with you and it's necessary to him.

Among the signals of a guy who's actually in love is if he has a crush on you. This is not difficult to spot because often it seems like he'd only wish to invest all of the time that he can on you. He constantly wants you about, he's the very first person to ask you out, he'll want to watch you personally, and he'll be the one to pick one up if you're at the airport or to go someplace special.

In reality, the majority of women believe it is simple to understand if they're in love or just need sex with him.

Love is in fact a power of character. However, much could be removed from us, desired or removed, demanded or allowed, in the same way the skies and the planets and stars alter their path according to our own wishes and whims. However, you can surrender to appreciate or you may combat it, but finally, love strikes like lightning: incontrovertible and unpredictable.

What's love? Could it be the sort of love which you're able to command or are you being advised that you adore? It's a fact that a guy does require some kind of control or consent so for him to have the ability to get his way, but many guys need love, they would like to have their own demands met first and they then get to appreciate their love.

Even though a guy has the capability to do anything he likes into a lady - be it sex, spending some time with her, or asking her out for dinner - that he has to demonstrate he adores her. That can only occur if he would like to be with her and wishes to discuss his love with her.

If you would like to have the ability to discern the difference between when you're in love and when you're only in love, there are a number of signs to search for. There are a couple things you ought to search for that may indicate a guy is interested in you.

9 rules to stay positive

1- I need to develop the energy of never looking back from the past to see the previous chapters of life over and over since I can't return to my previous to repair things. Now's the opportunity to assess the lessons learnt once and focus on to increase my current and future.

2- I must steer clear of negative souls so I must prevent spending time with folks doing backbiting, criticizing, cursing, whining , conspiring, corrupting and complicating. (More about the 6 Cs could be read in this hyperlink.

3- I must prevent judging other people due to their activities. I have to mind my own company rather than distributing their activities and commenting in unfavorable manner. Thinking and talking about other people pollutes my ideas and steals my reassurance.

4- I need to develop the practice of gratitude. Meaning that in the conclusion of every day I have to refresh the simple fact that I'm far better than countless those people of the planet. Becoming healthy, maybe not in debt, sleeping on the mattress, eating 3 times per day and utilizing net are the fantastic blessings billions of individuals don't appreciate. Individuals possessing high degree of gratitude reinforce positive strong thoughts.

5- I need to spend some time in reading great books, visiting sites on positivity, enjoying Facebook pages comprising quotations and studying inspirational stories on daily basis. This can help eliminate negative impurities out of my nature and enable my positive character trait.

6- I have to stop being volatile and responsive to individuals and situations. I have to remain optimistic about other's feelings and respect their own views because every spirit is exceptional in believing so that I need to avoid imposing my ideas to other people. I have to confess that I'm wrong occasionally so comprehending other's standpoint be empathetic is quite crucial for me to prevent building stress decreasing my self-positivity index.

7- I have to be positive in my situation even if they're not as great. I must comprehend that time doesn't halt so I must begin taking the required actions to expedite the change procedure. One thousand plans cannot be equivalent to the energy of one great measure taken directly now!!!

8- I need to of concentrate on religious awakening acts like a) regular attacks of smiling, reduction of skill in conflicts, lack of skill to others, ability to respond to things as they occur rather than residing in anxieties and so forth.

9- I have to concentrate on enhancing the caliber of my ideas because caliber of ideas determine the amount of reassurance. 

Hair Therapy

To start with, we have to realize that bald, balding spots, and thinning hair aren't necessarily brought on by precisely the exact same thing. In reality, some individuals can't get these indicators. There are a couple known reasons why the human body produces less oil than normal, like the breakdown of the hormones, a deficiency of minerals, or just not having the ability to absorb certain vitamins. 

To be able to make certain you have the ideal oil recipe for hair growth and reduction accessible, you want to find some fantastic details regarding how you ought to look after your hair. Whenever you're taking a look at baldness remedies, it's vital that you consider everything you can do this can help your hair grow thicker and more.

Only take a few pills, combine them with water, then add several drops of essential oils, and then employ it to your scalp and rinse it off.This oil may be applied topically to one's own scalp.With a shampoo that includes these ingredients and utilizing essential oils which contain them will supply you with a powerful formulation that will provide you the results which you would like. In regards to combating hair loss, it's likely to discover the ideal oil recipe for baldness.

Among the very best oils to use while combating this dilemma is saw palmetto, which can be derived from a tree found in Brazil. Saw palmetto has been demonstrated to inhibit DHT creation, and it's shown promise as a component in natural hair loss remedies.

What causes baldness even worse is that it impacts every area of the body sooner or later. The something which looks universal concerning hair loss and hair loss is they are both issues brought on by precisely the exact same thing. This issue is named DHT. It is also the exact same problem which causes male pattern hair loss.

The procedure by which DHT functions is quite special. It begins by binding into a follicle receptor sites and slowly ruining the follicle. Should you by chance get a surplus of the hormone on your system, it is just like a chain reaction which may make you lose your hair right away.

It's necessary to keep in mind that there's nothing"fast and simple" about hair growth, however there's something"fast and simple" with the ideal oil recipe for hair development. You don't wish to wait till it's too late to take care of this issue, or your hair will begin to drop out before you know it.

There are a number of products on the market, but none of them appear to really handle the problem of hair thinning or reduction itself. Your very best option is to locate an organic therapy. One which includes a mix of herbs, vitamins, minerals, and other all-natural ingredients which could help you combat this hormone and allow it to function more efficiently.

When you've found out exactly what your hair is experiencing and you've decided a strategy to take care of it, you'll be on your way to locating the ideal petroleum recipe for hair development.

An additional essential oil which you could have in your shampoo recipe would be lavender oil. You could be surprised to understand that a different herb which could succeed in inhibiting this hormone, also known as aloe vera, are available in most supermarkets. Both of these components can offer a potent blend that will give you with a cure-all.

The very best oil recipe for hair growth and reduction that's accessible is one which comprises the ingredients which we only mentioned. They'll offer a cure-all so as to prevent this issue from coming back.

You need to be certain you are receiving the best product for combating the condition that triggers your hair thinning, together with the proper products to supply you with the nutrients your hair needs. So ensure you include a wholesome diet, and a supplement which includes all of the minerals and vitamins your hair needs so as to develop healthy and strong.

Selfless Service

 I lost my 50 currency note.

I walked with a thousand ideas as to who would have written that notice?  She'd have asked everybody to rip that notice however none did.  I mentally thanked that individual and realized that people only need to feel the need to assist, there are many ways to perform it.  He/she merely needed to help this older girl who lives ...

I had been recommended to follow that speech and found an old hut in shatters with a elderly girl sitting outdoors.  She was brittle and inquired who's it, after my footsteps.

Someone stopped me asked,"Bro, will you assist me with this speech?  

I had been inquisitive to understand exactly what was written, therefore went nearer and saw it.  "I dropped Rs. 50 at some place on the street.  If some of you find it, then please give me at this address.  My eyesight is not good so please assist."

I said, it is OK amma you maintain it.  She requested me to rip that note on my way back again. 

She started crying on hearing .  She stated "My beloved I've had atleast 30-40 folks encounter and offer me Rs. 50 stating they discovered it on the street.  I didn't write that notice; I Can't even see properly nor don't know to write and read"

In my way, I discovered a bit of paper attached into a electrical pole, with a little note on it.  

How Successful Or Ineffective Can Work From Home?

However, things throughout the pandemic have taken a radical turn. The blurring of work and home is very likely to be a permanent complication of this pandemic. There are particular perks an office area supplied which we might not have appreciated before but certainly do this today.

The endless zoom encounters, being continuously glued to a screen, getting your home and work lives being obscured have made the idea a lot less appealing now.

As there's not any logging away, the brain's attention can be lost when you come back to work the following day. So, instead of having a mind that is being forced to operate, it becomes a fairly weary mind that is functioning automatically

A Stanford University economist named Nick Bloom reported that "Working from home is not too successful right now". He also published a study from 2015 which discovered that Chinese call-center workers who worked from home have been 13 percent more effective than workers in a management group, since they took fewer fractures and created more calls per second.

I am also guilty of having presumed that working from home was originally a great idea because you had a couple of perks that came with it like wearing your Pajama's, not needing to travel in the warmth and using the flexibility of possibly choosing your job hours.

These include lunch breaks, interaction with coworkers, having inspiration to operate, obtaining a regular etc..

The absence of clear demarcation between home and work is contributing to untimely working hours, anxiety, fatigue and general less productivity.

With major businesses such as Twitter, Facebook and Apple extending work at home spans for their workers pretty much forever, it looks like WFH is here to remain.

Premature Ejaculation

If you're attempting to have a wholesome relationship, and you also ought to ensure it remains healthy, then you are going to want to know about what is premature ejaculation. There are various causes of this issue, but it typically stems from both the physical and psychological frame of mind.

When a man has a premature ejaculatory difficulty, it's likely to wind up getting the disorder called PE. This is a really significant issue that may result in death if left untreated. PE is caused by a lack of psychological and physical endurance.

Premature ejaculation may cause difficulties in relationships. It follows that lots of the girls in a relationship might have an issue with their spouse if they're not able to continue long enough to get their partner to climax. Girls might also be not able to please their men as they're unable to survive long enough. Many people today feel that guys are far more in control of this problem than girls, so that they feel as though they can control if it will occur.

Premature ejaculation may also be a indication that a man has been depressed. Additionally, it may indicate a man isn't happy in his connection. Men with PE are usually not in a fantastic mood, and this may bring about depression from the individual changed. Some men might attempt to steer clear of sexual activity to conceal their problem, which just makes matters worse.

If you're a guy who suffer from premature ejaculating, and you're concerned that your relationship may be over, then you need to start looking into seeking help yourself. There are a number of remedies that may help you to get back your confidence. Additionally, there are many resources on the internet which you may utilize.

If you eat something that's going to produce your bladder become bigger, this will make a more difficult time when you try to urinate. In addition, this can result in difficulties with your PC muscle. This is only one of the critical reasons why guys ejaculate fast.

Another thing to consider is what's causing your early ejaculation at the first location. This can help to get rid of the issue permanently.

If you're thinking about finding the proper assistance for your self, it might be in your very best interest to think about natural procedures of therapy rather than having to go through expensive operation. Aromatherapy, massage, meditation and other methods can help relax you and provide your body a number of its desired relief.

Premature ejaculating does not signify that the guy doesn't care for his spouse or his spouse doesn't love him. It only suggests that the guy isn't capable of satisfying his spouse on a constant basis.

A research by 500 men revealed that the average quantity of time required to get a man to semen was 5.5 minutes later beginning sex.

When a man is experiencing premature ejaculating, he's usually unable to relax during intercourse. This induces him to survive longer, and leads to him not enjoying the experience as far as he'd love to.

Many guys find help for premature ejaculation only because they feel like they can't control it. This is an issue which may be overcome if the two spouses work together to get the ideal therapy.

That is the reason some people today have a tendency to survive longer during intercourse than others. 1 means to do so is to lie down on your tummy and exercise yoga or workout prior to sex.

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Why Dog is so Honest

The principal thing which I learned in the obedience class that I took when I was in college would be that the dogs are not people. However buddies.
 

In the event you own a puppy, you are aware that the reason they're so loyal to you is due to their commitment and their honesty. And it is really difficult for them to not be honest as it's in their nature to become honest. 

However they will think of what's happening with a different dog in the package and they may decide they don't wish to play that dog. Or they might decide that another pup is making it tough to play them. So they will decide they do not wish to play with them and so they will decide they do not want to spend some time with a different dog.

For example, if they're allowed to wander across the lawn and do what they please, then visit the home and start enjoying you or with another dog in the bundle, they will feel as though they are a part of the package and they'll wish to do exactly what their master states. This is only because they feel protected from the surroundings. When they move out from the world and no one is about, they will make snap decisions about what they would like to do.

The principal difficulty is that a puppy is loyal since they would like to please their grip, and that is the reason why they do what their master states. If you train your pet which has a wonderful strategy and consistency they will thank you.

A puppy is going to save you from becoming fearful. When you encounter a strange individual, for instance, or something sudden, a puppy will watch for you that you don't become worried and behave too quickly.

Well, dogs adore care and when you're constantly about their master together with their owner, they're feeling loved and cared for and they'll behave appropriately. They are also rather smart creatures and will recall exactly what their master did for them and also people who were done by a different dog in the bunch. So in order to find this care and attention, the dog behaves like they wish to please their master and do just what their master wants.

When they go out into the playground, they'll consider what they wish to do. They might decide they want to have a walk and they will bear in mind their master said that it was a great day and they will want to do precisely what their master told them to perform.

The chief reason a puppy is indeed honest is because they're fearful. They don't want to mess up the bunch or hurt the master at all. So they behave their way simply to please the master would like them.

The main reason a dog is really honest is because they're fearful. They do not wish to mess up the bunch or damage the master in any way. So they behave their way only to please the master would like them to. After the master isn't around, they don't act how the master might want them to.

Should you ever end up in a situation such as this, a pup will always analyze the individual it believes is coming to them and will return for you and will visit their side. It is this pure instinct that makes a dog a fantastic buddy.

Boy, Postman and God

Once upon a time, there was a boy Shyam. Shyam was very poor, he wanted a bat for playing cricket. He asked his parents 500 rupees purchasing bat. But his parents said they don't have money. 

Then Shyam wrote a letter to God saying "God I need 500 rupees please give me!". The next day Shyam gave a letter to postman but the letter has the address of dropping as "to God". Curious postman opened a letter he saw Shyam need 500 rupees, postman wants to help but he has only 400 rupees. 

The next day postman wrote a letter saying "Here is your money, my child! - From God" and with 400 rupees he gave the letter to Shyam. Now Shyam was happy he got the money from God. Then he prayed to God in his mind "Thank you God for giving money but a postman is a bad person he stolen 100 rupees and given me only 400 rupees. Please teach him a good lesson". 

Moral: "Never Judge Someone Too Quickly"

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STRANDED......I Do Not Belong Here!!!!!!!

Stranded between holding on and letting go,

Torn between embracing a happy tomorrow

Or staying pinned down by a past, dyed in hue of sorrow

Stranded by ties that held me captive

Simply because I was made to believe,

Love is blind 

Soon I learned, it was nothing more than a twisted illusion of the mind

Stranded because my heart had its roots anchored deep into the unwelcome ground

Yet somehow, to stay, I was bound

Stranded where I was planted without consent

Compelled to stay on without intent

Too young to disbound 

Too innocent to understand

Stranded far too long

In an unfortunate place

I clearly didn't belong.

Practice, Practice....Practice

*Practice....*

Once, Lord Indra got upset with farmers, he announced there will be no rain for 12 years and you won't be able to produce crops.

Farmers begged for clemency from Lord Indra, who then said, rain will be possible only if Lord Shiva plays his Damru. But secretly requested Lord Shiva not to agree to these farmers and when farmers reached Lord Shiva, he repeated the same thing that he repeated the same thing that he will play Damru after 12 years.

Disappointed farmers decided to wait till 12 years.

But one farmer regularly was digging, treating and putting manure in the soil and sowing the seeds even with no crop emerging.

Other farmers were making fun of the farmer. After 3 years, all farmers asked that farmer why are you wasting your time and energy when you know that rains will not come before 12 years.

He replied, "I know that crop won't come out but I'm doing it as a matter of "practice". After 12 years, I will forget the process of growing crops and working in the field so I must keep it doing so that I'm fit to produce the crop the moment there is rain after 12 years."

Hearing his argument Goddess Parvati praised his version before Lord Shiva and said "You may also forget playing the Damru after 12 years!"

The innocent Lord Shiva in his anxiety just tried to play the Damru, to check if he could...and hearing the sound of Damru immediately there was rain and the farmer who was regularly working in the field got his crop emerged immediately while others were disappointed.

It is the practice when keeps on making you perfect.

We become even diseased or old just because we don't practice.

Practice is the essence of quality survival.

So, let this pandemic situation lift after 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years. Whatever trade or profession we are in, keep sharpening our skills, practice with what we have, upgrade our knowledge.

Don't wait for the rain, that is this pandemic to be lifted and then start something...focus on our skills today, upskill yourself so that you are ready to meet the challenges.

What is LIFE?

If someone asks you, "What is life?" What will you answer. Millions of people living on this planet have their own definition of life. For some, it is a dream, for some life is to be happy always, foe some life is a struggle. But in today's time, we are not living our lives the way we want, we try to live upto the expectations and timelines of others instead of living to ourselves. A very famous dialogue of the hindi movie 3 idiots, "life is a race, agar tez nahi bhagoge to baaki log tumhe dhakka dekar aage nikal jaenge". But, do you really think life is all about race, why should we live our lives to win the race. Life is a beautiful journey, we travel through the mountains and valleys, we should travel through ups and downs of our life.

We get afraid if we take the wrong turn then we will not be able to come back, but its not true. It doesn’t matter how far we have gone on the wrong road we can still take the U-turn. Life is all about both success and failure. Time does not remains same always. We will be able to live a satisfied and happy life only when we understand the true meaning of failure.
The notion of perfectionist lies only in books. No one is perfectly perfect and no one is perfectly imperfect. Each individual have some qualities, some imperfections, their own likes and their own dislikes. Its not bad to listen to others, we should always be a good listener, but we should not live our life the way others want. If we are not happy, we will never be able to make the world around us happy.

We should be smart enough to holding on, but be brave enough to let go the things. Life is not about finding yourself, but life is about creating yourself. So create yourself in such a way that no one can take your happiness away from you.

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us -- Buddha

W For Winter Wonderland

All around, there are strange and mysterious sounds,

It seems that only the strong blowing winds are around.

As the cold winter winds blows,

The night chills out and is covered with snow.

The stars are freezing in the sky so high,

Sometimes it seems they are even far from my sigh.

As the snow blows against the house,

I had myself in my warm blanket as if I am a small mouse.

Still I love winter wonderland,

I sit down at my window with a cup of hot chai in between my hands.

I love to see all the things covered with snow,

It makes my mind and heart to blow.

I like to see a white carpet on the ground,

Where the deer tracks are abound.

Watching the full moon rise above the horizon,

I like to feel the stillness of the snow sand,

All I love is this WINTER WONDERLAND.

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How puny are we humans in comparison to this big old universe.  When sized up against it, we won't even count as tiny beings. And if the science community is any good with its predictions and calculations, we won't be here for a long time. At least not till we make a genuine effort to do so!

 

Our lives are minute in the timeline of this universe, yet our ambitions and actions belittle it with the sheer amount we generate. Every individual has their own ambitions and the actions they take to make the reality better for themselves. Multiply it with the number of living beings alive at the moment and you will come across an uncountable number. In other words, it's the way of life, we humans like to live and endure what comes our way.

 

But in reality, the way of life we follow is not that big at all. Even though our collective thoughts are a sheer amount, our lives are the exact opposite of that. We take birth, grow, learn, adapt and then finally die. Our life is nothing but a stick of candle. Our flames are passed to us, by our previous generation, who teach us the way of life and a billion other things that were a part of their lives. They shape the very core of what we understand as values and personality, with which we tackle the problems of this world. The molten wax of our predecessors is what used to mould the candle we call our own. When we finally become of age to think and stand for ourselves, we become the very being, our predecessors were. The only difference being, the amount of experience held by our flame and wax we are made of. This process keeps on repeating on an infinitude level and this is what we call "Passing Of (Humanity) Torch". The time allocated to us is the length of the candle and after which, it is our time to finally pass the torch to our next generation. This process as a whole keeps repeating and the number of candles alight at a particular time, is no less than a wonder itself.

 

The network of the candles formed with this continuous flame shines brightly and in a never-ending manner. It dispels darkness around us, to enlighten the path we are all taking. This light is what keeps the corner of the universe we reside in, particularly bright. This network of candles is the only thing keeping us away from the loneliness and lifelessness of this humongous universe. With each candle varying in various ways from the one beside it, it makes for an interesting journey, albeit a short one. Getting to know various people, their perspective, their way of life, their inherent values they carry and finally, their ambitions and desires. This variety is what makes each one unique in a different manner. And the more people we get to know in our limited time span, the more we feel content at the end of our journey. I really hope humanity keeps going like this and spreads its flame in this lonely universe, brightening it….just for the sake of it.

BEAUTIFULLY BROKEN SPARKLES

Allow thyself 

be broken

let those cracks to

accede the beautiful lights

flow inside you

imbibe,  

that glorious arora 

Feel that

calm 

yet

enlivening breeze

glisten like stars

because 

now 

the splintered YOU

shows off 

those broken scars 

as your 

LIFE FLASH LIGHT

My Quarantine Routine

When i think about my yesterday now, my minds calculates the things i did - very fast, not because i am intelligent enough😜 but they are very less in numbers. My whole day almost went on the bed and thanks to my f*cked up routine during pandemic, i have completely forgotten about the morning.

It been four months now when i last wore my jeans, when i last went out to have fun with my friends, when i last met from my Gf. Thanks to the IT sector i still have job thats why i can spend my whole day easily otherwise i do not know what would i do within these four months.

Mainly i woke up at 11:00 AM , maybe 12:00 PM, then i spent my next two hours roaming in home around here and there and have some tea, use the washroom. In starting of my 4 months, i was fully active and motivated that i would use these holidays and do something productive out of it, and then what happened i am still at the same stage here,where i was before.Then eat my lunch and watch some web series and then i sit for my office work till midnight. then again i watch some web series and play call of duty sometimes and went to Sleep. thats how my day completed itself.

Eat 

Work

Game

Sleep

Repeat

 So basically in 24hrs, for 21hrs i sit and sleep on the same bed. This bed becomes part of my life now and takes the place of my GF, my friends, and my office.

But after all this if i take a look closer to it, then i think i am living the life which i think i will never get. I am living with my parents day and night from last four months, usually we spent our days in schools colleges, then office. We dont get much time to spend with them,.

Secondly who knows we are all part of history now, maybe in future children read about this time , about us , about this pandemic, about this corona virus, about this world's biggest lockdown in their books, who knows some of you are creating something so that your names will also appear in their books.

Do not lose Hope, this time surely go away and leave us a memory to remember.

आखिर दोषी कौन??

हताशा की भी क्या सीमा होगी,

निराशा भी कितनी गहरी होगी।

मायूसी का बाँध समेटे अपने अंदर,

वह ज़िंदगी भी कितना लड़ी होगी।

दोष उसका नहीं जो खेल ना पाया,

दुहरे मुखोटों को झेल ना पाया।

दोषी तो वह समूह है जो घमंड में डूबा है,

अपनी असंवेदनशीलता में उसकी चुप्पी को जो समझ ना पाया।

V For Void

When you will wake up tomorrow and will not see me,
You will think and will look around at the sea.
Something in me is totally destroyed,
I will be gone far from you in my own void.

The sun will rise again and will fill your eyes with tears,
I hope at that time you will understand I used to tell you about my fears.
Something in me is totally destroyed,
I will be gone far from you in my own void.

I know you will cry the way you never did till today,
While thinking of many things I asked but you didn't get to say.
Something in me is totally destroyed,
I will be gone far from you in my own void.

I know you will then realize how much I love you,
And each time you will think of me, I will miss you too.
Something in me is totally destroyed,
I will be gone far from you in my own void.

It's OKAY

For it's okay, to be living in your own bubble,

In a bubble safe from the world's trouble.

Life here in the bubble seemed to go at a slower pace,
I'm here in the bubble away from the human race.

For there are no fairy tales to wonder,
there is only a stale reality to ponder.

For lets once try and shed away the gloom,

and give our fantasies a chance to bloom.

For once in a while forget the presumed perfection,
and take some time to evaluate one's reflection.

For it's okay, to be living in your own bubble,
In a bubble safe from the world's trouble.

LIFE.DRAMA.ACTION

         

           

                    

       Aaaannnnnnnd ACTION!

Life is a DRAMATIC FILM

Drama of DHARMA PRODUCTION 

to

SANJAY LEELA BHANSALI's  story line

(not supporting nepotism here :p)

That platform  though

is provided by the demiurge 

Without any audition

You have to act 

Without Makeup

Without Designer Clothes

(or may be with that)

Get up 

Work Hard

Work Smart

Just don't sit idle

Work for your Fame

Learn to play your life game

Entertain the audience

Walk with that confidence

Swirl without hesitation

Like they said

NO PAIN NO GAIN

Be thy flag bearer

hold that head higher

because you know what 

YOU ARE A FIGHTER

Why do we bend our thumb and index finger while medidate

If you read about this thing then you will get, this is the most ancient technique following from thousand of years in India in our hindu mythology, our rishi-munis (ऋषि मुनि) used to follow this techniques to meditate for days, weeks, months or maybe for years. Because this is not normal it has its scientific meaning which is totally helpful for our body. In our Hindi term it is called as Gyan Mudra means knowledge gesture. There are so many Mudras present in our mythologies, you can read all of them on google but we are going to talk about this particular Gyan mudra which is a requirement in this current messy life.

What are fingers related to:

The thumb symbolizes space, the index is air, the middle finger is fire. the ring finger is water, and the little fingers stands for earth. So it is believed that by creating different Mudras with your hands or by joining different fingers, you are moving into that powerful energy. “You have within you, the infinite organizing power of the universe"

Mudras draw your mindfulness inward and reconnect you with your heart’s language of compassion, kindness, goodness, creativity, and joy. -- Meditation teacher Sah D’Simone

Benefits of Gyan Mudra:

Gyan Mudra is a powerful mudra (or hand position) which brings peace, calm, and spiritual progress. It relates to the planet Jupiter. Gyan Mudra has wide and varied health benefits, making it one of the most practiced mudras of all.Stimulating the root chakra, it eases tension and depression, empowering the mind, nervous system, and pituitary gland. Gyan mudra helps to enhance focus and concentration of mind, which leads a yogi to the deep meditative stage. It is the reason this mudra also called the Meditation in today's world. 

Steps to Perform Gyan Mudra in Yoga:

• Sit in a comfortable posture.
• Hold your back, chest, and head in a straight position.
• Relax your whole body and place your hands on your knees.
• Now fold the index finger of both of hand towards the thumb & join the tip of your index finger with the tip of the thumb. Leave the remaining three fingers straight.
• Relax and close your eyes softly and concentrate on your breath. Inhale and exhale deeply to seep air into your body to attain a sense of lightness.
• Clear all the thoughts in your mind and listen to the vibes of your body.
• You can chant a mantra or “Om” while exhaling deeply for an ecstatic effect.Well, its not compulsory you just need something to concentrate and i guess 'OM' is that word.

Guys, lets do this. Atleast start by 15 minutes, sit, forget the problems, relax, take a deep breathe and you will definitely see the change.

Happy International Yoga Day.