FACTS AND MYTHS ABOUT DREAMS

1. Almost each one of us dreams once in 90 minutes, and the longest dream of 30-45 minutes could occur in the morning.
   
   
   
2. Dreaming helps you to learn more and more.
   
3. Men are famous for having orgasms in dreams. Women can also have the feeling of orgasm in their dreams.
   
4. An average person dreams about 1,460 times in a year.
   
5. Neptune is considered as the ‘Planet of Dreams’. Water represents the depth of emotional level of humans. Dreams wraps the level of unconsciousness and takes us into another world.
   
6. Nightmares occurring again and again have some underlying message in them.
   
7. Dreams can be controlled. This fact was displayed in the movie ‘Inception’ but according to a survey of 3000 people, it has been found that lucid dreaming amplifies the ability to learn from the state of dreaming.
   
8. You can dream at any place, being asleep is not mandatory.
   
9. Childhood dreams are shorter than adult dreams.
   

Enjoy Your Dreams :-)

She is.....

She is a geeky, I am Classy.

She is Rachel, I am Ross.

She is Sensitive, I am funny.

She is elegant, I am clumsy.

She is superstitious, I am not.

She is kind, I take my time.

She is a introvert, I am an extrovert.

She can stay home, I can roam around the city all day long.

She likes Ranbir Kapoor, I like Rishi Kapoor.

She likes cricket, I love cricket.

She likes jokes, I make jokes.

She is hygiene freak, I throw my towel on the floor.

She is Monica, I am Chandler.

She likes to sing in the Slowest tone, I love to sing in the weirdest way possible.

She is innocent, I am little bit freak.

She is kind, I am bloody wild.

She is Hug lover, I am sex lover.

She is a chatter box, I am a good listener.

She loves long drive, I love to drive.

She is supercute, I am …lets skip this ;)

She is right,well that's it - she is always right.

A MEETING WITH GOD

Once a little girl was very curious to meet god. She has always heard that god loves children alot so she was sure that god would definitely meet her. So she decided to set towards the journey to meet god. Since she knew that the journey was long so she packed her bag putting in some choco pies and fruit juice. She said bye to her mom and set towards her journey.

In her way, she found an old man sitting all alone in a garden and staring at the birds around. He was seeming as he was very upset and tired with his life. The girl got near and sat next to him. The girl felt thirsty so she opened her bag and decided to drink the fruit juice. But suddenly she noticed that the old man was feeling hungry, so she offered him fruit juice. the old man accepted it and after drinking gave her a beautiful smile. The girl was completely moved by his smile as if the whole world was filled with happiness. The girl wanted to see him smiling again so she offered him a piece of choco pie. The old man again accepted it and again gave a beautiful smile to her. His smile was full of calmness and love. The girl didn't moved anywhere and they both spent their entire day sitting there, eating and drinking. But none of them spoke a single word.

As the dawn was about to happen, the girl realised that it was the time to go. So she packed her bag and got up to leave. Before she had gone a few more steps, she turned back to the old man, ran to him and gave him a hug. The old man gave her the biggest smile ever that was full of affection. The girl was delighted by it.

When she reached her house and opened the door, her mother asked her, "What did you do today that made you so happy?". The little girl replied,"Today I had lunch with god". Before her mother could ask anything more, the girl added,"You know what mom, he had got the most beautiful smile I have ever seen."

The same way,the old man, full of joy, returned to his home.His son was stupefied by seeing the peace and joy at his father's face.He asked him, "Papa,what did you do today that made you so happy and gave you so much peace?" The old man replied calmly,"Today I ate choco pie in the park with God." But before his son could say anything more, he added, "You know, she is much younger than I expected."

So, the aim of telling this story was that "God is everywhere. We just need to share our happiness with others to make them smile and to feel him."

DARK NIGHTS OF THE SOUL

The life has both the bright and dark sides. When life enters into a tunnel, its not only the darkness but the fear of being darker. Each one of us is suffering by our own destiny. Stucked into the mid of the tunnel, we are not able to find a single ray of light. Slowly and steadily we slip into the hole of confusion where our fear and pain overshadows us. It marks hard to live the life and many chooses the path of death…that many of us take. But the truth is that daily we are living a death, it is not the final stage but we face it daily. Staying alive is not enough. The ego of ours cuts our life layer by layer and we die daily even before actually leaving this earth and proving our immortality. We travel from hell to heaven, move likes ashes around and have no existence even when we really exist. There it feels like we are breathing in a completely different air, where every touch is much different.

But is it? Are we really leading a life? No, we are just spending time and not living it. Happiness is all about spending each moment as its your last and living it to its fullest. The dark nights of the soul search for the stars to fall so that they could make a wish. The wish may or may not get fulfilled but its failure traps us deep into the darker parts. The journey of dark night of the soul is where we learn who we are, without other people telling us. Not to want something that you want is impossible. Try to cross the tunnel to see its brighter side. The dark nights are the period of transformation of our self from the one that has been away to the one that we want to be. Sometimes to heal the wound, we have to travel into the dark night of the soul. Those who face the dark night of the soul unveil the truth that others don't understand.

Only those who are willing to walk through the dark nights will be able to see the beauty of the moon and the brilliance of the stars.

Dear Zindagi

When we enter this world, we see many people around us but we don't know anyone. The one who is born cries and everyone else present there laughs. I still did't understood why we cry when we are born. Let's let it go. So, what is 'zindagi'. Is it about achieving aims or or just letting it to go with the flow or about living for others or for self. It is what you take it to be. Actually I think its about everything, The combination of all these is what called as 'zindagi'.

Time goes on passing and we just spend it and don't live it.If someone would suddenly ask me what was the last time when I really expressed my feelings or when I cried when I felt to cry or when I laughed?? all these questions strike through my mind and my heart.

Sometimes we are not able to show what we are really feeling but the bad part is that we are just judged by our behaviour. But is it right to judge someone just based on his behaviour because it might be possible that at that time the person might be in some personal problem or something else. 

Life is uncertain. Sometimes things get screwed up. While many of us are struggling to achieve our dreams, there are so many who are yet to find it. Some are not able to find it in their entire life and some get to know it at very early stage of their life. On our failure or some problem, we feel ashamed to cry because we think that others will make fun of us, but did those others ever come to wipe your tears or to ask you from what are you suffering, then why not to express fully what we are feeling, why not to cry when we feel to so that we could also smile to its fullest.

Life is not always easy but we should cry when you want to and should laugh when you need to.When all the nights get darker, a single ray of sunshine can enlighten your path. Many times we are unable to find answers to many of our questions and we start to think that we are not capable of but the truth is that we should have enough patience to search for those answers. Zindagi is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent is how you respond to it. The steps of the journey might be difficult but we should not feel disheartened because the view from the top will be very beautiful. We all are here for a purpose, we should atleast give our best to achieve that. You cannot get everything at the same time, so its better to be at a place and enjoy its beauty rather than thinking about those things or those places that you can't get at that time.

We are always confused about everything like whom to make friends, which course to go for ,which job to opt and the most important is to select your life partner. We should stop for a while and think about what you really want because "you are the teacher of your own school of life".

When it comes to select a path that will lead us to our dream or goal and if that path is too difficult and we are not ready to face those difficulties then its better to choose the easy path because one day that path will take you to your dreams.

Don't let the past to blackmail your present to ruin your future.

WHERE WE INDIANS ARE HEADING??

In today’s Indian society, if a girl wears short skirts then she is assumed to be shameless. A 6 inches gap between blouse and petticoat is termed as a traditional wear but a 2 inches gap between top and trouser is termed as shameless. After more than 60 years of Independence, is this the way  where we are proceeding?

I think we should have a clear view of the norms of “great civilization” that our society perceives and  what it really is.

Many of us don’t know the fact that during the age of Lord Krishna, the gopis’ used to bath naked in  Yamuna river as it was not regarded as undisguised. In today’s era, if even if an actress has to wear a  bikini for a shoot, then it becomes a breaking news. A common girl can’t even think of wearing a  shorts and skirts, otherwise she will be regarded as inviting the devils to rape her.

Another huge word - Virginity and Premarital Sex. If anyone around you talks about these words, our  first thought would be, ”how shameless is he”.  But why, is talking about that thing in day that  everyone does at night is nauseous.The rishi Ved Vyas who has written Mahabharata was born by the  premarital sex between Rishi Parashar and Satyavati, who later married King Shantanu.

In some castes, I am using “castes” here because we the Indians are still bounded by this debris. In  some parts of India, there is a traditional of having marriages among cousins. This means suddenly  your first cousin might become your husband or your wife. Suddenly, all the relationships get  messed up. This trend was not followed and was opposed in ancient times.

A well known example of Draupadi who had 5 husbands and Padu who had 2 wives was not considered as a distress. But at today’s time, it is not followed. I am not saying that this  was right at  their part, but it is a fact that if a woman has her second marriage due to any   reason, then she has to  face the cruel and scorn behaviour of the society and this is not same with men. If a man have his  second marriage , then also the girl is blamed for that.

Lets talk about Intercaste Marriage. Now this is something that has become the reason of many  deaths of lovers. In India, intercaste marriage is considered a crime and if someone does it, then  either they are killed  or are boycotted by the family and society. While if we talk about ancient time,at  that time Intercaste  marriages has happened. King Shantanu who was a Kshatariya married a  fisherman’s daughter Satyavati.

A new trend of Kundali matching, which people thing would flourish the marriage, actually completely destroys it. Having marriage with a person whom you like or with person with whom your kundli matches.  What would you select? In ancient time, marriages were not held based upon kundlis still they werwere very  successful. Lord Ram married Sita just by breaking the arrow and not by matching Kundlis.

Love marriage and arrange marriage, this is something which is really a cause to be discussed and  understood. Our today’s society is considered to be modern and civilised. But still many lovers are  killed or boycotted by their families and society. Love marriage is considered to be a sin and a  shameful act. Arrange marriages are regarded as good because it is done within the so-called “castes” by the parents. What really matters for you, that you are marrying a person of your caste, or  you are marrying a person with whom you will always live a happy life whether he or she is of your  caste or not?

God gives birth to everyone as a special individual without imprinting the label of a specific caste onto his  body. So if god has not created any difference then who are we to divide his children into castes? And the  most shocking thing is that the girl has to change her surname after marriage it means she does not have  here personal existence. Before marriage she is known by her father’s name and after marriage by his  husband’s name , so where does she exists as an individual,There are lot more things that are really shameful and are needed to be changed. But we have to start from one thing if we really want to mark ourselves as modern and civilized.

THE ILLUSION OF SELF:RECLAIMING THE SELF

Each night when we sleep, we travel in a world of dreams and illusions. Some says that the dreams come to be true or we can say that the illusionistic world has come into reality.Illusion is nothing more than deceptive impressions or appearances. Most of us has an illusion of “self”.The whole day the work we perceive, the thoughts that comes into our mind and each and everything shows our internal soul how the way we are.All these gets collected into our mind and at night when we go to sleep, we try to get the things that we are not able to get into reality into our illusionary world of dreams. The next morning when we wake up ,we had travelled miles of distances from our world of “self illusion” to the world of reality which makes us conscious. The bright light of the sun, the cold wind blowing, the chirping of the birds and infact the coziness of your partner makes you fell sentient. As the dawn comes ant we feel drowsy,we get down to to awake as what we are. The unfulfilled dreams and desires of ours sits quietly in a corner of our heart and when vigilance grows,we develop the sense of having a past and the idea of “you” emerges. This includes "your joys,your sorrows,your sorrows,your desires,your identity" and this turns into "I: which ultimately turns into "me" in the sub-conscious mind. We start gathering the memories of the past that we want to live again and the plans of future are reformed. We perceive ourselves in a world of illusion until we get the realization that we have to wake up to perform our work.

While we are slept and we get nature's call,we get upon and while going towards washroom,we suddenly see ourselves into the mirror it seems that it is someone else.That else is what some people assume to be "self".But what really is "self".Does it really exist ... well I think it's not.The concept of self is nothing more than a story that our brain tells to itself.The brain creates a narrative illusionary image of being "self" in some part of the sub conscious mind and takes it to the conscious mind where the human develops the feeling of being "self".If we talk about a monitor,it is just a monitor and not a computer system. If we talk a about a mouse,it again is not a computer system, if we talk about CPU,if is again is not a complete computer system.But when we talk about a computer system,all these components automatically comes into existence but computer system as alone is nothing without these components.Same is the case with "self".We , the humans are basically a machine where our organs are the components of the machine.The machine is constituted of a body and there occur changes in body so how could it be self.The machine thinks, feels and all these are subjected to change.So without all these components how we could speak about the word "self".So self is just a story and it is "you" whatever happens in your brain .

Alan Watts once said,"FOR AS THE SNAIL AND THE TORTOISE WITHDRAW INTO THEIR SHELLS,MAN RETIRES INTO HIS CASTLES OF ILLUSION."

Story of Scorpio and Frog

Once upon a time, a Scorpio and a Frog were standing on the bank of a river.The Scorpio was thinking that how he will be able to cross the river.Suddenly, the frog asked Scorpio to sit on his back and he will help him to cross the river. The Scorpio agreed upon it and they both started towards crossing the river.

While they were in between the river, suddenly Scorpio stung the frog on his neck.They both started to sink and the frog said to Scorpio,"Why you sting me ,you are also sinking with me".

Scorpio replied,"Buddy,don't put a question on my friendship but you know it's my nature to sting".

The moral of the story is that the basic nature of living beings does not change. Inspite of knowing that the Scorpio might harm him,the frog helped him because being helpful was his nature and the Scorpio instead of being thankful to the frog ,sting him because harming others was his nature.

So,we should just keep on doing good with others and should not be like if someone is doing wrong with you then you will respond in the same tone,then what will be the difference between you and him.

WHAT DO WE DO,AND WHAT HAVE WE LEARNT

One friend said,"I have written a story.Would you like to listen to it?" His friend replied,"Oh,why not.I know you are very good at it.Please start.I am eager to listen from you." The first friend said that this time you will tell me the moral of my story.The other friend agreed and he started narrating the story to him.

He said,"Once upon a time,there was a poor man.He begged all day so that he could have bread and butter for himself and for his wife.One day, an old man came and held him a cup instead of one or two rupee.The beggar said I don't want this,What do will I do of it. The old man replied very softly,"My child,this is not just a cup,it is a magical cup that will change your life.I won't tell you about its magic,you yourself had to find it."And saying this,the old man left.The beggar took the cup at his place and showed it to his wife.His wife said,"we already do not have anything.Might be this cup will do something to us that we never have expected of."The beggar used to take cup into his hand daily to find out for its magic.One day,when he got nothing to buy bread and butter,he took the magical cup into his hands and the drops of tears that were falling from his eyes got into the cup.Within few seconds,the drops of his tears transformed into pearls.He got to know that this was the magic that the old man was talking about.

Now,he started thinking about the quickest way to get numerous pearls.And to a sudden shock,one day he was sitting on a mountain of pearls with a bloody knife in his hands and his dead wife in his arms.

Suddenly,his friend interrupted,"So he killed her so that he could cry and get rich?"

Friend friend,"Yes,you got it so quickly."

His friend,"but he could have just smelt an onion instead."

And this way the story ended.But it caused me to stop and think for a moment."Why we humans become so desperate to get what we want that we even doesn't care about the lives of our near and dear ones," 

His wife loved him more than anything else and he killed her to be happy forever.Now,would he ever be happy again just with the materialistic happiness.....

"DON'T LET DESPERATE SITUATIONS MAKE YOU DO DESPERATE THINGS."

DEATH TWITCHES MY EARS,'LIVE' HE SAYS,'I AM COMING'

Death-a word that fears everyone. When we are born in this world,we by default get into many relations like being a son,daughter,brother,sister,niece,nephew and many more. As we grow up with these relations,we get attached with the people and indulge into more and more relations like friends,best friends,boyfriends/girlfriends and thus getting more and more attached with the fallacious world. We start living for those whom we love. Everything goes into its perfect pace. The world seems to be very delightful when you love others and are being loved by them. You do not fear of anything what will happen the next moment and do not even bother about it.

And suddenly you realise that something has happened to you due to which slowly and steadily you are heading towards death-the word that puts an end to everything. How will you react although you are not sure about the results but still you have the image that has been set in your mind. Now you start fearing about everything and every second seems like you never know what would happen in the next moment.At that time ,everything seems to be darker as if all the colours have changed their way and do not want to come to you.You start feeling very depressed,although you keep a smile on your face in front of others but from inside you are dying every second with the fear of being dead.It is more harsh than than actually being dead.

But is it correct to die every second before you actually die.No,not at all.All human beings are mortal and one day all of us will be just a memory in someone's mind and nothing more than that.So,when the ultimate stage is death for all,then why should you fear about it.Its also a part of your life.God sends us to this planet Earth to perform some specific tasks and when they are over,he calls us back to himself .Its just a cycle that is followed,when one will go then only the other one will come.So,instead of being afraid of death or the ultimate consequence,we should be happy being what we are and should keep on performing our roles or responsibilities for what we have been sent here.
There is a very good shayari, "Kabhi kisi ko mukammal jahan nahi milta", but you can definitely reciprocate it by your will power.

"LIVE EACH DAY AS YOUR LAST..SO THAT YOU WON'T DIE BEFORE YOU ACTUALLY DIE."

Love vs Ego

When I was surfing through the net , i got this story so i think i should share here, because sometimes we need a motivation whether the situation can be anything.

Once there was an island where all the feelings lived together.

One day there came a cyclone and the island was about to drown.

Every feeling was scared but Love made a boat to escape.

All the feelings jumped in the boat except for one feeling.

Love got down to see who it was,it was Ego!

Love tried every possible way but Ego didn’t even take a single step forward.

Everyone asked Love to leave Ego and come in the boat but Love was meant to Love.

It remained with Ego.

All other feelings were left alive but Love died because of Ego!!!

Think over it…

#Thoughtforaday #PositiveThinking #Innervoice

My best Childhood Games and May be yours too

Some memories you cant change, they are like stick with you forever. Just like that our childhood and its games stick with us forever, yeah we dont have time to play them now but you can teach someone or your child to play these games, it costs you nothing but gives someone a beautiful smile.

Gully Cricket

• First ball rule: Try Ball 
• You hit any glass you are out
• Outside out
• Lost Ball 
• Dead Ball Rule 
• Six out
• One tip one hand 
• 3 miss rule

Maram Pitti

  

• Only for brave kids :P
• Not hit on head
• Ball can be of rubber or plastic,uff
• Run within the particular boundaries

Stapoo

• I know its a girl's game but you know we all love to play with girls :P
• Awesome Timepass of afternoon or in evening too
• Also Known as Chindro (Kidi kada)
• Cannot stand on two foot
• Take the stone upto the end.

Chupan Chupai (Hide & Seek) 

• One player have to find another players.
• If someone said "Dhapa", player had to do that again.

Kanche (Marbles)

• Popular , fully timepass ,
• Kali-Jota, kali means odd , jota means even 
• Indians are champions in this game.

Pithoo Gram

• So much fun with flat 7 stones and one tennis ball
• Hit and run
• Strategy,planning,running , it covers all the aspects of true gamer.

Chain Chain

• Catching a Last guy is fun
• Hard to change directions when chain becomes long
• Unity haha

Gilli Danda

• Mostly played in the rural areas and small towns ,and believe me they are the best
• This game requires remarkable hand eye co-ordination and a perfect thrower to make you out
• No boundaries for this game

Latoo (Top)

• Very hard to learn and after learnt very easy to play
• Some people do so many tricks like they use rope to lift the spinning top.

#ChildhoodMemories #Happiness #Games

Chirkut Blog_Diwali Wish

The great Hindu epic ‘Ramayana’ describes however Lord Ram (the incarnation of Lord Vishnu within the Treta Yug) conquered Lanka once

Lord Rama vanquishing the evil King Ravana and once passing a amount of of fourteen years in exile came to his capital Ayodhya on a replacement moon day of Karttika with mate Sita and brother Lakshman.

To celebrate the homecoming of their beloved king, the individuals of Ayodhya burst wacky, lit up their homes with material lamps (diyas), and adorned the whole town within the grandest manner. Year once year this homecoming of Lord Rama is commemorated on Diwali with lights, fireworks, detonating of wacky and merriment. The pageant gets its name Deepawali, or Diwali, from the rows (avali) of lamps (deepa) that the individuals of Ayodhya lit to welcome their King.

May millions of lamps illuminate your life with endless joy, prosperity, health and wealth forever. Wishing you and your family a very "HAPPY DIWALI"

Who is Better

Two gods, Vishnu ji and Shiva ji who, were arguing with each other on that 'Who is the most famous in the human community'. The argued all day and night continuously.

Since they could not come to a decision, they agreed on a simple test.

There are two POLES on the road with a path between them. Vishnu ji will tie a thin strong rope between the poles such that if anyone walks on the path, they're somehow will fall.

The test here is the name of the god the person will shout when the person will be in problem.

The first guy came along, and fell due to the rope and shout "hey Ram (Avtar of Vishnu)!". Vishnu ji gave a smile to Shiva ji who gave back a rude face.

The second guy came along, and fell and cried "hey Mahadev(Name of Shiva)!". Shiva ji gave a smile to Vishnu ji who gave back a rude face.

The third guy came along, and fell and shouted "Which idiot tied this rope here?".

I think you got the Moral of the Story ;-)

LOVE-CHANGING WITH GENERATIONS

Mmmmmm...I don't know exactly what i am going to write about. It is just I have heard my friend's view about love..so I want to share it with you all...

So the story starts like this......I am talking about the age of Romio-Juliet, Heer-Ranjha , Mirzaya-Sahiban who dared to love. So what was love for them..was that about only attraction which further leads to romance..and romance further leads to intimacy and after all these are done..both lived happily their lives not together but with new partners?? No , for them love was their life. Once they saw each other,even without knowing each other ,even without talking to each other still they used to have endless talks just by looking into each other's eyes. For them the first thought that came into their mind was just that I want to spend my entire life with him or her..I will live with him and die with him. They never had such thoughts whether I will be happy with him or her,he or she is not of my standard,will I be able to share my entire life with him or her,whether he or she would understand me or not...It was not based on just saying 'I love you' and never feeling it from inside. Rather than saying these few words, they used to express it by their actions and not merely by words.

 Coming to our generation ,or what I should say,the so-  called 'cool and modern' generation. In our generation  ,LOVE is just a word of four alphabets that doesn't  mean more than having fun with sometime for the time  being you are enjoying it and then switching to  someone else. Its like you are trying a cloth how it looks  on you, getting a check on it,if you liked it ,you will  keep it with you and will use use it for a view days and  as the trend will change,you will throw it out of your  wardrobe and will buy a new one. If I talk about how people of our age LOVE , the first thing is the attraction. 

It leads to approaching the one from whom you are being attracted and then having talks ,meetings and all.All these are done with an aim of knowing that person more and more.Here knowing literally doesn't means searching the inner beauty, it means you try to fetch out whether he or she meets your standards of living or not, whether he or she will be able to fulfill all your requirements or needs or not, whether he or she will be able to make you happy or not. After searching out and getting answers to these questions, we decide whether we should love that person or I should say generate love for that person in our heart.What a rubbish thing it is.Love is not a method or procedure that needs to be generated, it is a feeling that comes automatically from deep inside your heart. It is not a product or a grocery item that before buying you need to check upon it whether it is perfectly fine or not.

I will not say that all of us from this modern generation perceive love just as a word of four alphabets. TRUE LOVE REALLY EXISTS. You just need to search for it and tell that to the one whom you loves the most and you will find a new love story that will set an example for all others.

YOU DON'T LOVE A PERSON FOR THEIR LOOKS,OR THE WAY THEY APPEAR..YOU LOVE HIM BECAUSE THEY SING A SONG WHICH ONLY YOU CAN HEAR

Childhood Myths in Punjabi's

AS i am from Punjabi's Family, i heard these types of things daily in my life, they are funny and awesome so i think i should share with all of you :-)

• My mummy used to say me that if you will bite your nails by your teeth, then some bad luck will definitely happen to you.

• If chappati falls on the floor, the we have to choose between god or devil. If we choose god then we can eat that chappati and if we chose devil then damn we can't have it....LOL...

• If you will drink water from a bottle that has been touched by someone's leg ,the a wound will grow around your lips.

• If you will use scissor without any work,then some quarrel will happen in your house.

• Behan ko laat maaroge to next birth me buffalo banoge.

                           And Yeah This one :

• Paapiya paapiya behan ko na maar, jana padega haridwar, haridwar me ganderiyan ,do teriyan do meriyan..

   You can also share yours if you heard something different. :P ;-)

नासमझ लोग

पहले मैं सोचता था 'क्या लिखूँ'?
फिर ख़्याल आने लगा कि क्यों लिखूँ? किसके लिए?
तुम्हारे लिए?
तुम समझ जाओगे?
तुम्हे पता भी है कि किसी लिखाई में समझना क्या होता है? अरे तुम आज के ज़माने के लोग हिंदी के शब्दों के मतलब समझ जाओ न, ये ही बहुत होगा।
पर एक बात बताऊँ?
एक लेखक शब्द नहीं लिखता, वो जज़्बात पिरोता है स्याही के धागे में.. हाह! जज़्बात, तुम क्या समझो जज़्बात क्या होते हैं| गलती भी तो मेरी ही है जो मैं पत्थर में इंसान ढूँढने लगा था| साला, तुम लोगों को जज़्बात समझ क्यों नही आते? इतना मुश्किल तो नहीं है इनको समझना!!

उससे कहा सीधे लब्ज़ों में कि मोहब्बत है, तो वो जज़्बात नहीं समझी और चली गयी| पिताजी से कहा कि इंजीनियरिंग नहीं करनी, तो वो नहीं समझे जज़्बात और उनकी इज़्ज़त का ध्यान रखते हुए करनी पड़ी| दोस्तों  से कहा कि ज़रूरत है तुम्हारी, मत जाओ तो वो किनारा कर गए| सीधे शब्दों में जो जज़्बात होते हैं, न जाने तुम लोगों के लिए इतने मुश्किल क्यों होते हैं!
कोई नहीं समझा जब समझना था|| दो शब्दों में बोली गयी बातों के पीछे के जज़्बात नहीं समझे| आज बिना कुछ बोले भी वो समझ रही है जज़्बात, पिताजी भी समझ रहे हैं और दोस्त भी शायद! सब समझ रहे हैं अब, अब जब किसी को समझाने की ज़रूरत नहीं है, न ही मैंने किसी को दो आसान शब्दों में समझाने की कोशिश ही करी है। अब सब समझ रहे हैं जब मैं मेरे कमरे में बिस्तर पर गिरे हुए stool से दो कदम ऊपर पैरों को लटका कर पंखे से झूला झूल रहा हूँ| सब समझ रहे हैं आज, अब जब ज़रूरत नही है समझने की मेरे "जज़्बात"!!

Funny Myths about Masturbation

When I was in school I heard the most funniest myths of my life and at that time they felt so real that I cant even explain. Masturbation itself was a myth in school, everyone denied doing it in public but with the friends they showed that they are only one who knows how to do it ;-) ('act as a king'). Along with it came the myths and for every myth you heard made you re-think about your night before :P , and left you in terror o-) for the rest of the day. I compiled some of these myths about masturbation, all of them are pretty shitty and made my life hell. Take a look.

• If you do it, you will never grow taller - But today's generation is already born short, lol

                                   

Something,Nothing,Everything

When People Ask You What Will You Do In Your Life, Lazy People Like Me Always Say "I Will Do Something One Day". But Think Little About It What Is That 'Something',


Yeah It Will Be Interesting Or Boring That Depends On You,That At This Time You Don't Know What Is That 'Something' And Remember If We Don't Know That 'Something ' We Know Nothing. 

Try To Recognize That 'Something' If You Want To Make A Goal In Your Life, If You Want To Survive In This World. If You Are Really Working For Your 'Something', Then Only U Will Find 'Something Other Than Your Something'. Wake Up Guys Go For Your 'Something' Rather Than Wait For Something Other. As You Already Know That "Something Is Better Than Nothing".If You Really Go For This 'Something' Then You Will Definitely Achieve Everything.

The Story Of Two Wolves - Which one will win ?

One day a grandfather asked his grandson that he is going to tell him a story that is closely related to the fight that goes inside every human.

He said, ”My child , there is a fight similar to the fight between the two wolves going within every human being.”

He started narrating the story, ”There is a terrible fight between two wolves. One wolf is evil-he was anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt,resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority and ego.”  He continued, ”The other wolf is good -  he has love, peace, joy, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassionate and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too.”

The grandson thought for a few minutes and asked his grandfather, ”Which wolf will win?” The old grandfather simply replied, ”The one you feed.” The boy was too small to understand the profound meaning of his grandfather’s deceivingly answer.

The purpose of this post is to help to find ways to manage your mind so that you can live your life the way you wanted to live it and choose the best with your own judgement.
Have you ever had thoughts, feelings or had acted in a way that seemed to be unacceptable by yourself but you felt so helpless and powerless to stop from having it??

As we grow up , we gradually become familiar with the facts of the external world which are largely beyond our ability to control. These generally include other people and the other events in our lives. Initially it is really difficult to accept that there are many things in our lives for which we really find ourselves powerless to control them which ultimately be the source of much distress. But indeed, is it true?? The parts of our mind can interact and can be in conflict with each other, i.e, the two wolves fight for dominance over our brain and behavior.

Only the “you” has the ability to decide which wolf to feed. After having made the choice, the “you” can specifically decide how to “feed” and nurture the selected wolf.