Life is full of uncertainties. We all have anxieties, curiosities, desire , confidence and many more. But one thing that is uncommon among us is "patience". Patience is the art of waiting with difficulties. Patience is everyone's cup of tea, we just have to make it more tastier. When a person tells himself or to someone other that "everything will be fine" or "things will be better soon", it means that the person has the patience to wait for the results rather than going anxious about it. Sometimes we do any things out of our curiosity that after while we regret about those moments.
Frustration results in being impatient.Being patient is very difficult at times. It doesn't grows suddenly, but is learned and earned slowly. Patience should not be mixed with laziness. Patience isn't dullness or coolness, but is power. Patience is a form of commiseration. When a person undergoes time in bad situations, then he should just not sit and wait for a miracle to happen, instead he should perform his duty and then wait patiently for the result. To frustrate means to become unsuccessful. When frustration comes, it reduces the ability to have patience.
Let's listen to a story:
Once a king declared that I am searching for my chief assistant. He announced that whosoever wants the post have to fill pond's water into a pot.But the twist was that the pot had a hole in it. Many people tried but left in a single try. Some even claimed that the king had already selected someone else. But there was one man who kept on trying. Every time he filled the pot and brought it to the king, it emptied due to the hole. But he didn't loose the hope. He tried uncountable number of times. At last, the pond was empty. At its surface, a diamond was shining. The man picked it up and brought it to the king. The king said," This is the reward for your patience and hard work. You are selected as my Chief assistant." So it was confirmed that patience pays.
Patience is bitter but its fruit is the sweetest.The secret behind being patience is to do something else in the meanwhile and having faith in God. Just because something isn't happening to you doesn't mean that it won't happen ever. No thing is suddenly created. it takes time for the things to grow and give fruits. To learn to have patience, you must first have lots of patience. A moment of patience in a moment of anger saves a thousand moments of regret. God has perfect timing for everything,neither too early nor too late. We must have enough faith and patience to wait and should go on doing hard work.
There will be days where you feel better, there will be days where you want to die.Both are okay.There is no magical cure.You just need to close your eyes and trust that the waves will pass,and soon you will be able to breathe again.