B for Belief

Had any one of us has ever seen God or angles? Well I don't think so. We just have a belief that God is everywhere and that he or she is the most powerful and nothing can happen without his wish. But none of us have the exact proof of his existence. We all had listened to the stories told to us by our ancestors who had listened them from their ancestors and this way the story continued.

Belief creates the actual facts.

The fact is what we only have is "belief", that's the only thing in our life that we carry with ourselves anywhere we go in the entire world. Our beliefs are the ones who no one can steal and it belongs only to us. Every relationship continues on the belief that we won't ever betray each other, but none of us are totally confident that it won't happen ever. Our beliefs are very much inspired by our knowledge. Out out-bringing, the surroundings in which we live or the people we meet or whom we feel the most important in our life has a very high impact on our beliefs.

Belief is the magic key that unlocks our dreams.

If we do not have any belief in our mind, then on what basis will we take any actions or think what to do or what not to do or what is right for us and what is not. If we have a belief that we can, then we are halfway there. When we were small children, we used to go to magic shows and found it very amazing and had developed a belief from that time that there is magic indeed and it can happen to us also at any spot of time. We felt very astonished that how this magic could happen and wished that some day we must also be able to do it. 

We all are one, our Egos, beliefs and Fears Separate Us.

To succeed in life, we must have a believe that we can. If we won't be able to believe that we are able to do or achieve something, then no power in the world can make us achieve our dreams. We are born believing. As tree bears beauty, in the same way we humans bear pour beliefs. It is not the way that the day we realize that our beliefs were not correct, we should start cursing ourselves for it, instead we should be strong enough to admit that we were not correct and are lucky enough that we have got another chance to make new beliefs. 

The truth is, "Few really believe. The most only believe that they believe."

Begum Jaan Trailer

Just saw the mesmerising trailer of Begum Jaan. The trailer depicts that the movie revolves around the time when British ruler Mount Baeton was the Governor General of India. Based on the concept of prostitution, its showing the courage of the prostitutes and how they fought couragely with the powerful rulers since they were forcing them to vacant their home because it was between India-Pakistan border. For the prostitutes living there, it was much more than the fight between India and Pakistan as it was their house and for the officials it was just a "kotha" of prostitutes. From the trailer only, Vidya Balan has proved that she is a superb actress.

Eagerly waiting for the movie to be released soon.

How your Life Changes After Marriage

Illustrated by: Ansi Syrovatkina.

MayBe

We will meet somewhere,
Where there would be peace everywhere.
Away from the rules and restrictions,
Where you and me will need no predictions.
There I will meet you,
Where our dreams will be true.
The day when we will walk on the same road,
Just holding hands in hands and no other load.

Today you are on a different path,
Running ahead and falling apart.
Your dreams are on some other way,
I am still standing there waiting for you to reach the bay.
I will wait for you till the end of time,
Let's see how long would it take for you to be mine.

Pause-Rewind-Play

In the fast moving life, we have no time for even ourself. If we will stop for some moment and think what all are we missing in our life, we will realise that we have lost the child inside us, the innocence of the childhood has been dumped somewhere deep inside us.

One day while I was feeling very low, I decided to go to the nearby park. There I saw a bunch of kids playing. It was such a great time and treat to watch their innocence. The way they were playing with each other, falling on each other, pulling each other, giggling , they bumped, collided with one another, tried to put mud on each other and jump on each other again and again.

The scene that was created in front of my eyes took me back to the days when I used to be a child. The days when I was unaffected by the wordly norms and the society rules and show-offs, the days when one is hurt only if they fall and grazed their knees or skinned their elbows. The days where just a simple "sorry" made us to forgive everything and never caused any bitterness feeling. The days were full of happiness and the word of complications had not taken their home in our life. The life was simple, happy and uncomplicated..

All these memories gathered in my heart and I just wished that these kids never grow up, atleast not before they had to. Just by sitting there and surrounded by these malevolent minions had set my word in motion again. The spark of curiosity glittered their eyes made a spark in my heart as well. The effervescence of enthusiasm gurgled in their voices. Their cheerfulness was infectious. It had been years since I have experienced that kind of warmth around me- the one that was non-judgemental, the attitude that the world was still at peace. 

And then the time came when I had to leave. I wished that I could take a little of the belief along with me. But something stopped me right then- when I gazed at the setting that I realized that it was getting late. Perhaps, too late.

Awkward Moments in our daily life - 2

A for Abscised

All of us once or twice or thrice or can’t say how many times go through the process of getting separated or falling off. This separation can be with anyone, our friends, family, love or even with ourselves. The plants abscise its leaves, flowers, seeds and fruits with or without his will because it has to undergo this process which has been made for him. 

The same process applies with us, humans, we get separated with time whatever may be the reason and the bad part is we cannot stop it to happen. Most of the times its not in our control and everything happens so fast that we don’t even get time to understand what is actually happening before what everything just gets destroyed.

Words of love become numb in separation.

When we get a small pinch or when a small nail of our finger gets detached from what it was attached, we get so hurt that sometimes the pain is unbearable. We cannot imagine the pain when we have to get separated from the ones who mean so much in our life. Its like our soul is getting detached from our body after which we are unable to breathe and unable to feel anything. The pain of abscission can never be expressed in words.

Abscission leads to anxiety. Anxiety has become a common problem that most of the people are facing in their personal and professional life. When we keep a pet, we get attached to it. The pet does not have the ability to speak, still he or she understands our expressions, our love for him and expresses his love and affection in his own manner. The moment of abscission does not even leave animals, they also have to go through this pain. They can’t express their pain of separation by speaking some words, but their eyes tell everything. 

Good-byes are painful. Every time we tell someone good-bye, most of the time they are left unexplained. We are left hanging out on to an abyss. The pain of abscission from the near and dear ones leaves us searching for the answers, we try to connect, and keep on getting disappointed.

We never understand how little we need in this world, until we know the loss of it.

Awkward Moments in our daily life - 1